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Head or Heart?

This is a very long story cut short. Basically there's this lad I like. A LOT. I've known him for years, we used to be friends and he asked me out a few years ago. (But I didn't have a chance to answer him) Anyway, he knows I like him but he say's we're too different now. (He's a charve and very bad, I'm not)
Now it's only a few weeks until I never see him again because we've nearly finished school. I'm thinking about going up to him on our last exam day and asking him to give me a chance. However, I'm worried about what he might say/do. My head says I shouldn't tell him because we would never work out together. But my heart says to tell him, otherwise I'll be wondering 'what if?' for the rest of my life. Should I tell him or not?
Please help, it would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.

Reply 1

Emmalina

Just go for it. If he means that much to you. Just do it! :smile:

Tell him. Just dont wait till the last exam day because you'll fret too much between now and then and wont revise well and stuff.

Reply 2

Mangaroo

i wouldnt pay much attention to the what if scenario since its not exactly a really special thing, i mean by all means go for its really bugging you, but i would take the hint and move on :smile:

Heart!!!

DO IT. I've had too many opportunities I've just over seen and you'll regret it!

Reply 5

Lush Law

I can smell the lurrrvve!! *melts*

Reply 6

fairycakes

heart definately! it hurts way more to be thinking what happened if.... than at least i tried and it didn't work out.
xx

Reply 7

Anonymous #2

Why do you like him if he's a chav?

Reply 8

Mangaroo

Anonymous

Why do you like him if he's a chav?

ROFL! *thinking that :smile:

Reply 9

Anonymous #1

I like him because he's a really nice person when you get to know him

Reply 10

Creative02

awh just do it. u'll regret otherwise

Reply 11

gideon2000uk

Heart. You can always dump him later :P

Reply 12

hitmanuk2k

Head. You won't have much of a future with him if he's a chav. If, as you say, you are not a chav... then you clearly have a much better future without him.

Reply 13

ciara

Please just do it, you will almost definitely regret not even trying if you don't. I still regret not telling the boy I totally adored all through primary school that I thought he was great, and that was, well...primary school! And hey, if it all goes wrong then come back on this thread and be counselled (not much good but better than nothing).

Reply 14

In Love

hitmanuk2k

Head. You won't have much of a future with him if he's a chav. If, as you say, you are not a chav... then you clearly have a much better future without him.

Reply 15

anjimcflanji

Ok going against pop choice here but head. Have the night i've just had and I should have listened to my head rather than my stupid heart who's just completely humiliated me and I just want to cry.
Move on, find someone who can't find a reason as to why they shouldn't be with you.

Reply 16

Anonymous #3

i would tell him, go with your heart. well i would revise rather than think about him though lol, tell him cos you dont want to think about the 'what if's'
if all goes bad at the end of the day, at least you cant say you havnt tried cos you have.
and i havnt spent the last 3/4 yrs listening to you talking about him for nothing! :smile:

Reply 17

Knogle

Don't live to regret. When I was in a similar sitation, I realised only too late.. but I'm glad I realised it anyway. It was a learning experience. Please, ask him!

Go with your heart!!

Head
i went my with heart and it was the most painful experience of my life. what if you fall in love with him and then he breaks your heart because you're too different?

but if you really like him and you're willing to risk getting hurt then go for it. im only telling you head because my heart got me into deep!