I don't want friend at university Watch
Say to her that u r good friends but u dont want her picking a uni over u. Even if ur not together u'll still visit etc. But if she does end up at ur uni try to not end up in the same accomm maybe. Mite b hard if she keeps askin where u've put. Maybe say if ur separate u can make twice the friends between u? If shes a gd mate, reasure her u'll stay friends but u each need 2 choose wots right for u. If not then well...
I've spoken to her and she has took it more well than I thought she would, but shes been ignoring me since. It feels 10x better to have it out in the open now compared to what it was. I think now she's wanting to go to University with our other friend who seems not to mind as much. Thanks everyone for all your help it was greatly appriciated!
Well, if she's ignoring you at least she won't be stalking you!
But seriously, you'll both make lots of new and different friends and probably drift apart slightly naturally. There's nothing you can tell her at this stage, you have no right to try to influence her uni choices. When you get there, make your own friends and you won't see as much of her anyway.