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if you have a method...post it!

im trying to forget about someone, i fancy the pants off him but he is lets say 'unattainable' so if you have a method to help take your mind off a 'loved' one please do tell... well i know that you cant just forget about someone *clicks fingers* like that....and that theres prob no remedy...but if you have something that works for you....then do tell lol
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your help would be much apreciated

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Find someone else to divert your attention to?

Anonymous

im trying to forget about someone, i fancy the pants off him but he is lets say 'unattainable' so if you have a method to help take your mind off a 'loved' one please do tell... well i know that you cant just forget about someone *clicks fingers* like that....and that theres prob no remedy...but if you have something that works for you....then do tell lol
:p:

:p:

your help would be much apreciated

Focus your attention on something else- studying, your job, anything. thats what im doing!
or, rant about it in an online journal! that usually helps :smile:

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nooo no no. Not an online journal. I did that when I was in a similar situation, and he found out because of it :eek:

:eek:

Very embarrassing for us both and definitely not recommended.

OP

im writing down everything to do with him in my diary, its all about everytime i see him and the time and place i see him....i got bored of thinking about him..and writing about him so it helped....but then i stopped writing in it cos i havnt seen him for a week....and im thinking about him again...im not going to see him for 9 more days though!! it helps to not see them for a bit...
but....you know tips would help lol

how did he find out about ur online journal?

Some bitch in my year told him. Nice of her.

OP

awwww i hope it wasnt too bad for you *hugs*

no-one is unobtainable, if he is a human being you can get him... you go girl!!!

Anonymous

awwww i hope it wasnt too bad for you *hugs*

Thanks. Was pretty bad at the time, but all in the past now. At least I got to keep him as a friend :smile:

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flirt with other guys - that'll make you feel less unwanted and maybe you'll find someone else. Go out with a group of (single!) girl friends for a night at a cocktail bar and point out the cute guys and discuss them and stuff like that. Just have fun and while you're having so much fun you'll have no time to think about the guy you can't be with. I'll take time obviously, but go and treat yourself and have fun! :smile:

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Angelil

Some bitch in my year told him. Nice of her.

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what a bitch

Indeed.
Anyway, I didn't mean to hijack the OP's thread, so I'll try and offer some advice now.
Carry on keeping a diary (an offline one :p:

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), that's really good to help get your feelings out. Unfortunately the only cure is time :frown:

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When you say 'unattainable', how do you mean? He's got another girlfriend? He doesn't like you in that way? He's married? Help me out here.

OP

hes married with kids and hes in a position of trust,ok hes a teacher....
i didnt really want to say incase things like 'stupid school girl' crush comes up lol... i realise how immature and stupid it is so im trying to avoid him and pay more attention to the sexy 6 th formers ( i didnt realise how good looking they all were but i prefer the teacher....)- i have no intention of doing anything about the crush id just like to forgrt about him lol
ok ill carry on keeping an offline diary....lol
thanks for your advice

does the teacher know you have a crush on him?

OP

im 99% sure he suspects, but we are on fairly good terms. well he doesnt teach me anymore i see him all the time but we rarely talk, we just say hello to each other every now and then altho he has joked around with me a couple of times in the last month, so i guess we are on good terms.

im sure he knows but hes a nice man and id like to forget about him cos he definitely is unnattainable and i want to get on with my life without thinking about him.

pick out flaws in them begin to say how stupid they are and eventually start to hate them, but beware you might want to kill them.

I'm sure it'll pass in time, well, you know it will.
Hmm.. ok, the first advice I gave was more kind of: the guy kind of led you on and them dumped you so you want to forget him kind of advice.
I think in this case, well, just try not to think about him and as you said, there are some quite sexy sixth formers around ... :wink:

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Don't beat yourself up over your feelings though, ie argh, got to get rid of them, got to get rid of them...
that doesn't really work, hehehe, just try and ignore them instead. Just pretend they don't exist. You think about him, then just say: oh well, and quickly think of something else.
Might help, otherwise, I'm sure it will just go as time goes by. And at least you situation isn't too bad - you could have a crush on someone who hates you, just keep telling yourself that.

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yes offline diary is good..

Angelil

Some bitch in my year told him. Nice of her.

damn, im scared now! ive been complaining in a journal!! aw, poor you :frown:

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glad it got better, tho.

im just gonna go and delete all my journal entries....

Anonymous

im trying to forget about someone, i fancy the pants off him but he is lets say 'unattainable' so if you have a method to help take your mind off a 'loved' one please do tell... well i know that you cant just forget about someone *clicks fingers* like that....and that theres prob no remedy...but if you have something that works for you....then do tell lol
:p:

:p:

your help would be much apreciated

Unattainable how? No one's unattainable...except dead people- he's not dead is he?

Ok, just read the thread. That is kinda unattainable- maybe you should concentrate your energy on breaking up his family and stealing him for yourself.

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