Hey there! Sign in to join this conversationNew here? Join for free
x Turn on thread page Beta

the casual thing is doing my head in... watch

    • #1
    • Thread Starter

    I've been seeing a guy casually for about a month (that's the only way I can think to describe it) We talk everyday on msn and have met up a couple of times where we've ended up kissing at the end of the night. I like him a lot, but the casual thing is starting to do my head in a little because it feels like I never know exactly where I stand with him. There's a party this week that we're both going to - and I'm pretty certain that it's going to go the same way things usually do..namely, us getting closer and then kissing. The problem is that I'm starting to want more. Should I talk to him about it? Or wait a bit longer to see if things progress further naturally?

    Hmm, maybe you should talk to him.
    It seems like you only meet up at parties. Maybe ask him if he'd like to meet you at a coffee shop or a bar or something, but don't tell him you want to chat about something specific as he might be evasive or think of an excuse not to go. If he makes excuses not to meet up anyway (as in on more than one occasion, if you suggest alternative dates etc.) then chances are he may well not be interested anyway.
    Still, it sounds like he fancies you, which is always a good start

    Is he shy? Cos then he might not know how to move things on. Unfortunately there r some guys out there who will settle for the random kissing etc until they find someone better. Try to get him to meet up on ur own, maybe suggest a 'date'. If he goes for it great! If he's evasive or whatever he probably isn't worth it!
Submit reply
Turn on thread page Beta
TSR Support Team

We have a brilliant team of more than 60 Support Team members looking after discussions on The Student Room, helping to make it a fun, safe and useful place to hang out.

Updated: April 18, 2006
Do you agree with the proposed ban on plastic straws and cotton buds?

The Student Room, Get Revising and Marked by Teachers are trading names of The Student Room Group Ltd.

Register Number: 04666380 (England and Wales), VAT No. 806 8067 22 Registered Office: International House, Queens Road, Brighton, BN1 3XE

Write a reply...
Reputation gems: You get these gems as you gain rep from other members for making good contributions and giving helpful advice.