I think this is the best place for this....
I've gotten fed up of where I'm living and have decided to move out. I've got somewhere lined up to move to, which should be OK to move into sometime next week (after a successful meeting with the other housemates...though there shouldn't be any problems, they seem to be more like my sort of people)
I only question is, I have an overwhelming want to just move out of my present house without telling the other housemates (I'm willing to pay my rent for the next two months, until the end of the contract).
I just feel like getting my mate to help me move my stuff out when no one else is there and then just leaving a not.
Is it really wrong to do this? I've never really got on with these guys and it's made me pretty miserable living there. They just aren't my sort of people and it might just be their sense of humour, but they aren't really that nice a people).
If you're that unhappy and you're willing to pay the rest of the rent (which I think is a good gesture) then they have no reason to complain.
The only flaw I can see in your plan is that your current housemates will (I assume) have to fill the room you leave. I would be quite hacked off if I was them and the first I heard of it was in a note.
Although if you're prepared to pay the rent I guess there's no problem.
Are your housemates going to be living there next year as well? As their rent will increase, or they will have to find a new tenant, which is really unfair for them just to find out on a note.
Whats the big deal in just saying, 'Sorry guys, its not working out for me, i'm moving out but paying the rent until the end of my contract'?
It seems a bit silly to sneak around and move out behind their backs. Just be honest with them, say you're moving out and show you're being reasonable about it all. They can't really complain if you go about it maturely and rationally. I just know if I was one of your current housemates and had to find out you'd moved out by reading a letter I'd be a bit pissed off.
if they really are nasty people, then saying it to their faces could make them think a bit about the way they behave in future.
god just run!!! i wish i could i HATE my flatmates! they are the noseyest noiseyest annoying *******s i've ever know! oh and dirty buggers to boot!
leave them a note telling them u think they are *******s and have the personality of a *insert something here* enjoy your life i know i will... hopefully they will feel bad... but if not it doesnt matter does it! at least your out of there!