Relationship problems

i think, you may want to give it a bit more time ~ seems a bit too fast paced to make some firm decisions. rough week :P

If you are really into your girl/boyfriend you can make time to see them, or at least show sensitivity if they raise it as a concern. The truth of this situation is something you may suspect but not wish to be confirmed.

I was in this situation so I can totally sympathise. I ended up calling it a day because I literally couldn't be bothered going out with the invisble man any longer. I agree with the above poster, you make time for someone you want to be with. Tell him you hardly see the point of being with someone you never see and see what he says to that. It may give him the kick up the arse that he needs!

i only see my bf once a week or every other week,sometimes it's tough other times it's ok.we've been together more than a year now,it might not seem worth it right now,but just chill and see what happens in the next week or two before you make a decision to end things

The prob is I'm going away on tuesday for a few days, then when I come back I'm back at uni and I feel like we will just go back to our rute where he stays with me at uni once a week. Then what will happen during the summer when I'm home without a flat for 3 months?

I wanted to sort things out before I go away next week but I don't see that happening somehow, with the bank hol and stuff and feel that things will be even worse when I get back.

i was away for two months and my bf and i are still together,it was the hardest 2 months ever but we both made it through.

just try to make time,do it over the phone,tell him how you feel. can't you stay with him,see him twice a week,like one to the cinema or something and then the second time stay over??

We had this convo like 2 weeks ago, things were fine and we meet up at home and stayed at my flat. We can't go to his or mine coz are parents don't know about us, but that is not an issue. One of the main probs is he is always working and he cant really confirm plans til like a couple hours before so if we're meeting up at night he'll call during the afternoon and tell me he has to work. I can't exactly say anything to that because if he has to work he has to work and ive been aware of that since the beginning.

I feel like ultimatly the only solution i see to this is to end it but i really do love him.

We had this convo like 2 weeks ago, things were fine and we meet up at home and stayed at my flat. We can't go to his or mine coz are parents don't know about us, but that is not an issue. One of the main probs is he is always working and he cant really confirm plans til like a couple hours before so if we're meeting up at night he'll call during the afternoon and tell me he has to work. I can't exactly say anything to that because if he has to work he has to work and ive been aware of that since the beginning.

I feel like ultimatly the only solution i see to this is to end it but i really do love him.

aww hon,you don't have to ends things.just tell him that if it's possible he should try to confirm things a bit more than a few hours ahead,like if he could give you half a days notice. does he reckon he might be working that day that sorta thing.and if he is,ok then make other arrangements. at least he's not ditching you for stupid reasons or lying etc but you could always go to his and pretend you're a mate and stay over and be quiet. or try meeting at a b&b.

The thing is that he meets me after work but a lot of the time he has to stay and work late so can't really give me that much notice. And with the stayin at his being a friend I don't think that would work.

I need to let him know that I want things to change, but i really cant see how they can, but I don't want to end it. Am i just asking too much?

The thing is that he meets me after work but a lot of the time he has to stay and work late so can't really give me that much notice. And with the stayin at his being a friend I don't think that would work.

I need to let him know that I want things to change, but i really cant see how they can, but I don't want to end it. Am i just asking too much?