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    ok this is a long story but i'll cut it short!

    Background: current g/f nearly 3 yrs not really working to well l8ly alot of arguing dont think it will last until uni at the end of the summer!

    Situation: me and another girl (very gd friends dont wanna give up the friendship) both like each other and know it although havnt fully admitted to it!

    what do i do? dump the g/f and try with the other girl? just tell the other girl how i truly feel and see what happens or just leave it as it is?

    talk it over FIRST

    If you're about to go through the trauma of ending that 3 year relationship and you're off to Uni in Sept., may as well keep urself single 'til you go off to Uni.

    After all, not many relationships survive the transition to University - and if they do, certainly not for 3 years (yes there are exceptions to this but in general most don't).

    Just my 2p though. I'd discuss how ur feeling with ur first girl, break up if necessary, then perhaps not get serious with the other girl in the slightest if u still like her (unless u think ur head-over-heels and may end up with her long-term).

    If you want to end your relationship with your current girlfriend, then end it. There's no point staying in a relationship for how it used to be.

    As for this other girl - don't declare your love straight away after breaking up with your current girlfriend, because I wouldn't have thought that either girl would look upon you favourably for it.

    Just take things slowly and enjoy the ride
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