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    If you have sex with a girl on a casual first date, does it mean that she isn't considered as a serious girlfriend/potential partner? Can casual sex lead to something meaningful?
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    Nah, I think it's fine these days.

    I had sex with my current girlfriend on our first date - I tease her about it now, but it doesn't bother me.
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    (Original post by Akira_Shinoda)
    If you have sex with a girl on a casual first date, does it mean that she isn't considered as a serious girlfriend/potential partner? Can casual sex lead to something meaningful?
    Most of the time she wouldnt be considered this no, as most people who are looking for something serious wouldn't jump into bed with someone on the first date.
    But of course sometimes it can be a mistake so its not always correct
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    i'd say so - in my opinion

    i'd never have sex with a girl on a first date though, infact it would be a fair amount of time longer. indeed i'd not engage in "casual sex" as i'd only sleep with someone i fully trusted and who i was in a proper relationship with. i prefer to know the person and im not that slutty.
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    I couldn't envision that situation since I would need to have an emotional connection between a girl to even start to think about sex, but if it happened, it would put the relationship in a more romantically intense context (mainly due to whatever led up to sex/the reasons and then the climax of having sex), but it wouldn't necessarily form the basis of a relationship for me. However, I've never experienced sexual connection so I am not entirely qualified to comment.
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    I've thought of that question myself as a girl......I slept with a guy who I am a friend/colleague with after a night out together and don't know if this would reflect on whether our fling could develop more as I would like it to :confused:
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    Depends. If the girl takes it casual in the loose don't wanna relationship sense. Then it's irrelevant what guy thinks, maybe this is why most guys don't take casual sex as the start of a partnership, because they dunna know what the lady feels....

    Erm... But these days, I'm guessing casual sex can lead to more, but as I said, it depends on the persons disposition I guess...
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    depends on the girl, but im afraid - usually for me its not likely....although its not likely that id want sex on a first date either..
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    We're talking young men and women right... Well I think a lot of these young people don't wanna start a relationship in the first place - and just take casual sex as just 'sport f***ing' for fun.
    I know I dunna want a relationship yet. I got loads of life to live first, why would I wanna slap the handcuffs on yet So to speak...

    Maybe a lot of people think this way, and therefore don't start relationships. Just flings.... for a guess.
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    Thats how my boyfriend and I started. Got really drunk at a uni open day, ended up spending the night together though in the end we didnt actually have sex becuase he was too drunk at that point to get it up teehee, and the next day. Then we sort of just stuck together and when we got back to London he ended up at my house having dinner with my parents and that was that.
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    (Original post by Akira_Shinoda)
    If you have sex with a girl on a casual first date, does it mean that she isn't considered as a serious girlfriend/potential partner? Can casual sex lead to something meaningful?
    Well all blokes are different aren't they.

    For me? My girlfriend wanted to have sex with me the night she met me (after a night out - go me) but I refused as I wanted things to 'develop' further that just casual sex-she was the first girl i'd met in a long time that was well, relationship material. I don't hold the fact she wanted to against her though, so I'm guessing that no it doesn't make a awful lot of difference really.
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    i think it makes no difference to long term prospects if you have sex with a girl on the first date....
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    I don't think it necessarily negates the possibility of her being your girlfriend - especially if you were mates first and then stuff happened
    But I know a lot of my male friends won't sleep with a girl straight away if they really like her; some of them just wouldn't respect her if she did
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    I won't date/go out/enter a relationship with a girl unless I've got to know her quite well...
    However, if I did have casual sex on the first date, I wouldn't use that against a girl....
    The only time that I lose respect for a girl, is if she cheats on people....
    But as someone mentioned, everyones different....
    There's one girl who I would go out with, even though she is percieved as slutty....
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    (Original post by Akira_Shinoda)
    Can casual sex lead to something meaningful?
    Definitely. I was having casual sex with my now girlfriend for a while before we were going out, and we ended up falling in love, and are now together
 
 
 
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