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Flirting

So whats the opinions towards flirting with people in relationships?

A lot of people i speak to think its completely out of order,
but then i cant see the harm really. Its just a way of trying to make yourself noticed right?

So basically answer this - if you were TOTALLY crazy about someone, would you flirt with them even if they were in a long term relationship?

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Reply 1

Hell, I'd even sleep with them.

Reply 2

Of course - every man/woman for him/herself!!

Reply 3

Fleece
Hell, I'd even sleep with them.


Slut.

Reply 4

I flirt with a lot of guys...but I have a reputation that I'm no boyfriend stealer so their girlfriends (who are usually my girl friends too) completely don't mind. Strangers however.......are a different story altogether

Reply 5

x.narb.x
Slut.


You love it.

Reply 6

YEP, and i agree with fleece (and not really proud of it but have done) - lifes too short and everyone cheats - (darwin survival of the fittest....)

Reply 7

Fleece
You love it.


Clearly not as much as you, whore !

Reply 8

I don't cheat. Nor sleep with boyfriends.

Reply 9

Unless it was a friend, I don't see the problem with it. If he does cheat on his girlfriend, he obviously didn't love her anyway. Apparently I used to flirt with my friends boyfriend too, but he was just my friend, I flirt with everyone

Reply 10

So lets take a different slant on this - me being a guy.

Would you flirt with a girl in a relationship even if it meant risking a serious decking off her bf?

Reply 11

ye

Reply 12

-x-buttercup-x-
Unless it was a friend, I don't see the problem with it. If he does cheat on his girlfriend, he obviously didn't love her anyway. Apparently I used to flirt with my friends boyfriend too, but he was just my friend, I flirt with everyone


will you sleep with me?

Reply 13

Fleece
Hell, I'd even sleep with them.


would it make a difference if the long term girlfriend joined in?

Reply 14

x.narb.x
Clearly not as much as you, whore !


Relax. Enough of the name calling. Everyone has standards. hehe:rolleyes:

Reply 15

i was 'involved' with a guy for 8 months who had a gf and at the time i didn't even bat an eyelid. i just thought who cares, he must not love her, it proves i'm more attractive than she is and he can't stay away.

now, though, having been in the position of being cheated on (karma seriously sucks ass-cheek) i would never in billion years dream of flirting with a guy who has a gf.

i'm a relatively flirtatious person but i would be exactly the same with him in front of his gf as i would be in private with him. it's only fair, because i hate the thought of some skanky whore flashing her goods around my man :mad: :cool:

Reply 16

i dont flirt with guy who are in relationships- well unless they flirt with me :biggrin:

Reply 17

It's too much effort to flirt with someone already taken! Surely that is pretty much obvious.

Reply 18

No, not unless your really strong :smile:

Reply 19

red_roadkill
It's too much effort to flirt with someone already taken! Surely that is pretty much obvious.


that depends on why a person is flirting. for some people it's just in their nature whereas others want it to lead to more. there's nothing wrong with either.