Personally, I believe I'm not homophobic. People who are openly and strongly homophobic repulse me.
HOWEVER, I had a bisexual friend. I was totally fine with that. I didn't cringe when she told me about who she'd had sex with or whatever.
Yet, we were watching the music channel together one day.
All the girls rolling around trying to be sexy made me laugh.
I kept pointing out who looks ugly, or who just looks plain ridiculous.
Then she told me one of them was sexy. I couldn't see it.
She started explaining to me how it was sexy, the way the girl moved turned her on.
Ohmygod, I was probably sick in my mouth or something. Maybe, it's because it made me feel vulnerable or something because I'm female. Yeah, I felt physically sick.
I don't think I'm homophobic. I respect people who come out. Yet, I do feel uncomfortable around lesbians (yes, I know every lesbian isn't attracted to me). I suppose it's like having the weird, fat, greasy guy having a crush on you.