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Reply 80
Original post by AHeinrich
Are you actually seriously serious? :shock:

You find anal sex more disgusting than 'light scat'? To say scat is disgusting would be a great understatement. By Jove, to even say that it is repulsive would still be a great understatement!

Bl0ody outrageous!


Well I wouldn't want anyone straight up pooing on me, but yes, I did mean what I said. Other people can bum but I don't think it's for me
Reply 81
Original post by EffieFlowers
I have no idea whether this is in the right section or not! Feel free to move.

Well I was just reading through that 'Am I homophobic for feeling this way' thread and I was quite surprised by the amount of straight people who said they found the idea disgusting.

And to me that was quite surprising, I mean I'm straight but the idea of homosexual's engaging in sexual behavior doesn't repulse me, I mean at the end of the day it's not that different from what straight people do? :confused:

I just always assumed that the majority of people had the same sort of mindset as me, so what do you guys think?


Personally, I believe I'm not homophobic. People who are openly and strongly homophobic repulse me.

HOWEVER, I had a bisexual friend. I was totally fine with that. I didn't cringe when she told me about who she'd had sex with or whatever.
Yet, we were watching the music channel together one day.
All the girls rolling around trying to be sexy made me laugh.
I kept pointing out who looks ugly, or who just looks plain ridiculous.

Then she told me one of them was sexy. I couldn't see it.
She started explaining to me how it was sexy, the way the girl moved turned her on.

Ohmygod, I was probably sick in my mouth or something. Maybe, it's because it made me feel vulnerable or something because I'm female. Yeah, I felt physically sick.

I don't think I'm homophobic. I respect people who come out. Yet, I do feel uncomfortable around lesbians (yes, I know every lesbian isn't attracted to me). I suppose it's like having the weird, fat, greasy guy having a crush on you.
:eek:
Reply 82
Original post by Arekkusu
Well I wouldn't want anyone straight up pooing on me, but yes, I did mean what I said. Other people can bum but I don't think it's for me


That doesn't matter, but you said you still like whatever? What is it exactly that you like doing?

Regards anal intercourse, would you take a different stance if you were taking the active role?
Original post by AHeinrich
Furthermore, for all of you sillies - 'gay sex' is simply anal intercourse between two males. In other words, it is not just homosexual couples that have anal intercourse; so too do many heterosexual couples.

So I guess those who find 'gay sex' repulsive would not engage in anal intercourse with their partner?


most heterosexual couples do not engage in anal sex. they engage in vaginal sex. so i don't find it disgusting.

gay couples have no vagina, and so engage in anal sex more.

is this an unreasonable claim ?

even if straight couples CAN, the incidence of anal sex in gay couples , logically, should be a lot more.
Reply 84
Original post by medicine gapper
most heterosexual couples do not engage in anal sex. they engage in vaginal sex. so i don't find it disgusting.

gay couples have no vagina, and so engage in anal sex more.

is this an unreasonable claim ?

even if straight couples CAN, the incidence of anal sex in gay couples , logically, should be a lot more.


No actually, many heterosexual couples DO engage in anal intercourse, obviously as well as vaginal intercourse. You would be surprised to find out that actually there are numerous homosexuals who do not engage in anal at all, but yes indeed, the incidence of anal intercourse is higher amongst homosexuals than heterosexuals. However, to call label anal sex as 'gay sex' is misleading as it is not exclusive to homosexuals. Anal sex did not suddenly come about just when homosexuality did. It's probably been around for longer.
Original post by AHeinrich
No actually, many heterosexual couples DO engage in anal intercourse, obviously as well as vaginal intercourse. You would be surprised to find out that actually there are numerous homosexuals who do not engage in anal at all, but yes indeed, the incidence of anal intercourse is higher amongst homosexuals than heterosexuals. However, to call label anal sex as 'gay sex' is misleading as it is not exclusive to homosexuals. Anal sex did not suddenly come about just when homosexuality did. It's probably been around for longer.


all i wanted to get from you.

many heterosexuals don't regularly enage in it. they usualy 'try' it or it's an occasional thing

a woman has a vagina/ a man a penis.
Reply 86
Original post by AHeinrich
Furthermore, for all of you sillies - 'gay sex' is simply anal intercourse between two males. In other words, it is not just homosexual couples that have anal intercourse; so too do many heterosexual couples.

So I guess those who find 'gay sex' repulsive would not engage in anal intercourse with their partner?


I think precisely that people don't necessarily find the idea of anal sex between a girl & a guy repulsive, but the idea of anal sex between 2 girls repulsive,
Reply 87
Nope, I'm a straight girl and I love watching gay porn :biggrin:
Reply 88
Original post by Rosie35
Personally, I believe I'm not homophobic. People who are openly and strongly homophobic repulse me.

HOWEVER, I had a bisexual friend. I was totally fine with that. I didn't cringe when she told me about who she'd had sex with or whatever.
Yet, we were watching the music channel together one day.
All the girls rolling around trying to be sexy made me laugh.
I kept pointing out who looks ugly, or who just looks plain ridiculous.

Then she told me one of them was sexy. I couldn't see it.
She started explaining to me how it was sexy, the way the girl moved turned her on.

Ohmygod, I was probably sick in my mouth or something. Maybe, it's because it made me feel vulnerable or something because I'm female. Yeah, I felt physically sick.

I don't think I'm homophobic. I respect people who come out. Yet, I do feel uncomfortable around lesbians (yes, I know every lesbian isn't attracted to me). I suppose it's like having the weird, fat, greasy guy having a crush on you.
:eek:


You really think you don't have a fear of homosexuality when you feel uncomfortable around all lesbians? If a girl did have a crush on you, I guess it would be uncomfortable because someone likes you that you don't like at all. You really feel like this with ALL lesbians?
IT'S HOT.
Reply 90
Meatspin is quite entrancing.

It doesn't repulse me. It's just the same as anal with a girl, which does the opposite of repulsing me.
Reply 91
Original post by Alix23
You really think you don't have a fear of homosexuality when you feel uncomfortable around all lesbians? If a girl did have a crush on you, I guess it would be uncomfortable because someone likes you that you don't like at all. You really feel like this with ALL lesbians?

I think I didn't explain that properly. I originally said I was fine with it, until she started describing it? I think I feel uncomfortable when I'm put into that vulnerable position. I can't say it for all seeing as I've only been close friends with one (she's nuts btw, that's why I said I 'was' friends with her).

She also started walking round in a thong and bra in front of me, and her room smelt of BO.
Reply 92
Original post by Rosie35
I think I didn't explain that properly. I originally said I was fine with it, until she started describing it? I think I feel uncomfortable when I'm put into that vulnerable position. I can't say it for all seeing as I've only been close friends with one (she's nuts btw, that's why I said I 'was' friends with her).

She also started walking round in a thong and bra in front of me, and her room smelt of BO.


I was talking about your last paragraph...
Original post by AlesanaWill
Haven't read through this thread, but this is just my opinion. I find sex in general quite disgusting, and I don't find gay sex any more / less disgusting than heterosexual sex. I think sex is a private thing. People can do what they want behind closed doors, with people of whatever sex is their preference. I don't understand why some people have a problem with gay sex. Just because you might not enjoy it doesn't mean that other people don't!


And I dont understand why some people automatically assume that if a sexual act disgusts you it must mean you have a problem with other peoples preferences. Truth is buddy, that isn't the case.
Reply 94
Original post by Ice Constricter
And I dont understand why some people automatically assume that if a sexual act disgusts you it must mean you have a problem with other peoples preferences. Truth is buddy, that isn't the case.


Well if the sexual act only disgusts you when it's done between two members of the same gender, then yes, you have a problem with people's orientation rahter than the act itself. These opinions about acts don't form from a social vacuum, everyone internalises ideas and accepted ways of thinking about sex acts. If those sex acts are strictly seen as occurring between two members of the same sex (whether that popular opinion is true or not) and you consequently feel 'disgusted', then you have internalised homophobia.
Reply 95
Yeah I wouldn't want to see that, even the thought of it sounds painful.

So not something I would ever think about either. Too painful.
Original post by Ice Constricter
And I dont understand why some people automatically assume that if a sexual act disgusts you it must mean you have a problem with other peoples preferences. Truth is buddy, that isn't the case.


Sorry I should've been clear - I know very well that just because something disgusts you doesn't mean you have a problem with it. Probably should have made a new paragraph, it was a separate point. Obviously I'm aware of that as I find sex in general disgusting but certainly don't have a problem with other people having sex! Everyone's different and enjoys different things after all.
Reply 97
Do I find gay sex repulsive? As a heterosexual, I certainly do.

Although I'm sure gay people would say the same about straight sex.
Reply 98
Original post by Tahooper
Do I find gay sex repulsive? As a heterosexual, I certainly do.

Although I'm sure gay people would say the same about straight sex.


Would love to get inside the mind of a gay person and test their brain receptors to see if this is actually true or not.
Reply 99
Original post by ufo2012
Would love to get inside the mind of a gay person and test their brain receptors to see if this is actually true or not.


It's not true :smile: I've seen straight sex (porn) that has been beautiful, natural, erotic and emotional. I've also seen (and had haha) gay sex which is all of those things. Unfortunately most people get their ideas of what sex is like (straight or gay) through porn, and as we know porn is not often presented in the way I described. Straight or gay, it's usually loud, cheap, tacky, plastic crap.

I don't really find girls sexually appealing, but do they and their bodies disgust me?! Absolutely NOT. I just don't understand why some people (not aiming this at you) are so bloody preoccupied with what other people do in the bedroom.

Gay people don't need their brain receptors tested by the way; nothing to diagnose here.

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