sorry l know l should get a life but...........

OK, to cut a long story short, got girls email address, emailed her summat rly cool and chatty. girl not replying (at private hotmail or college webmail*). EM will see girl on tuesday, how the f--- do i play things??? Do i act like it was a technical hick-up, or do i avoid her thinking shes ignored me for a reason.

*both these addresses are not reliable, hotmail puts everything into spam almost and college she won't recognise my screen-name 'Edmund'.

Sorry, l know l should stop posting here but im just so confused about it

Reply 1

El Scotto

15

not everyones on the internet every day and night. stop getting all paranoid.

Reply 2

Eccentric Man

8

El Scotto

not everyones on the internet every day and night. stop getting all paranoid.

Harsh, but i needed that kick-up-the-arse; thank you :smile:

BTW, sorry for posting anonymous

Reply 3

El Scotto

15

Im sure she'll reply when shes got time.

Reply 4

thegreatstupendo

2

I'm sure she'll reply, even if she doesn't like you and doesn't want to 'lead you on', not replying would be downright rude.

Reply 5

Matt2301

If I were you I'd pretend not to notice. I'm sure that there's a reason she hasn't replied. If she hasn't then don't let it deter you in the slightest. Confidence!

Reply 6

Eccentric Man

8

thegreatstupendo

I'm sure she'll reply, even if she doesn't like you and doesn't want to 'lead you on', not replying would be downright rude.

Yeah, exactly; she's a nice girl and l really dunno why l'm worrying :smile:

Except that, thats another two weeks wasted and this was meant to be a 'for god sake do something before you regret it' thing as we both leave college in a term

Reply 7

thegreatstupendo

2

Eccentric Man

Yeah, exactly; she's a nice girl and l really dunno why l'm worrying :smile:

Except that, thats another two weeks wasted and this was meant to be a 'for god sake do something before you regret it' thing as we both leave college in a term

in that case, go for it whatever! what have you got to lose? you'll never see her again probably.

Reply 8

Eccentric Man

8

thegreatstupendo

in that case, go for it whatever! what have you got to lose? you'll never see her again probably.

What, dya reckon say something face2face there'n'then?? Its just shes never away from her mates and l barely have the bollecks 2 ask her, let alone with her m8s right by.

Reply 9

Anonymous #2

thegreatstupendo

in that case, go for it whatever! what have you got to lose? you'll never see her again probably.

I once thought like that about a girl, was never going to see her again, then she turned at my uni halls in september. Wierd eh?

Reply 10

strawberry

13

there was this guy that I knew fancied me and I thought that I'd never see him again and then he walks into my tuition class the day after with his girlfriend. LOL. anyway, it's rude of her not to reply to your email.

Reply 11

Eccentric Man

8

Hey, the question changed from last time!! The neg rep was somewhat harsh if you don't mind me saying!!!!!!

The last thread queried 'should i email again' this queried 'l've somehow pissed her off, wtf do i do?'

Reply 12

Happy1

14

if youre usin hotmail, you can click a button on the new message thing which makes it "urgent" and should kep it out of the junk mail box

Reply 13

Knogle

16

Suzi_law

if youre usin hotmail, you can click a button on the new message thing which makes it "urgent" and should kep it out of the junk mail box

Really? I wonder why spammers haven't learnt to mark all their emails with urgent then. Mmm.

Reply 14

*Farfalla*

2

Don't worry... if she's a nice girl like you said she probably just hasn't picked it up yet.... Most girls would be flattered by a surprise email out of the blue... Maybe she's been busy over easter or her internet hasn't been working etc.
It would be incredibly rude to just ignore it which is why i'm sure that's not the case!

Sometimes one can blow things out of proportion from over-analysing them so i advise to just play it cool... say hi if you see her and give her a nice smile but otherwise let her bring it up/ reply whatever... I hope she gets back to you soon! :biggrin:

Reply 15

Bexxxx

14

maybe when you see her you should make a joke out of her not replying, say something like "oh so youre too busy to reply to my grrreat email hmmm :biggrin:

" - if she hasnt replied im sure she has a good reason, but if shes ignoring you on purpose then you making a joke out of it will imply that you dont care too much. :smile:

Reply 16

Eccentric Man

8

B_e_x

maybe when you see her you should make a joke out of her not replying, say something like "oh so youre too busy to reply to my grrreat email hmmm :biggrin:

" - if she hasnt replied im sure she has a good reason, but if shes ignoring you on purpose then you making a joke out of it will imply that you dont care too much. :smile:

Perfect!