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did you go all the way? (in terms of 'bases' if you like..)
Reply 2
yes well all apart from the fact that he was so many years younger than me i was his first so he didnt come but its still cheating
don't tell him. it will ruin the relationship even if you stay together. what people don't know can't hurt them... Be very sorry, make sure it never happens again. everyone makes mistakes. dont give yourself too hard a time, it will get easier and you'll forget about it. dont tell him.
Reply 4
Anonymous
yes well all apart from the fact that he was so many years younger than me i was his first so he didnt come but its still cheating


How poignantly logical.
i would have thought the opposite logic would be true
Reply 6
yeah but i feel terrible, i wa a bit of a tart b4 i met him and ipromised to change and i have, he is the only one for me, he is my soul mate, but i feel i should tell him. it will destroy everything but he has a right to know(right???)
Reply 7
Let's see how my cirrent evil mood can help ya... hmm...

Well... I'll give ya simple advice - Don't tell him. It'll mess everything up. So long as ya sorry it won't matter will it...

and... just for evilness.. thanks, for this thread... It made me laugh...

Bye, hope the advice is helpful... hope the evilness is scathing... :evil: lol...
Reply 8
dead man's shoes
i would have thought the opposite logic would be true


Myself, likewise; I was being poignantly ironic.
Reply 9
no evil enough afterwhat i have done i deserve more evilness but i still feel the need to confess maybe i am just to honest
Reply 10
Anonymous
no evil enough afterwhat i have done i deserve more evilness but i still feel the need to confess maybe i am just to honest


awww... You seem so nice... even through what you did... you drained evil feeling away there... :hugs:

Answer these questions in line, and all is cool:
1) You genuinely sorry - Y/N
2) You never screw another geezer as long as you with other bloke - Y/N
3) You love and wanna marry this geezer still - Y/N
4) You know you shouldn't tell him if you wanna keep things happy - Y/N
5) You gonna tell him - Y/N

that's it
Reply 11
ok i know your right but i still have theurge ti cinfess. what is wrng with me am i to honest. god i wish i wasnt but i am eaten up with guilt. i do love this man and i do want to maryy him and he is my world. i know that by teling i could prob eill lose him. over what something so stupid but i cant help feeling that by saying nothing the rest of our lives together will be a lie.is taht wrong
Reply 12
creamcrackered
awww... You seem so nice... even through what you did... you drained evil feeling away there... :hugs:

Answer these questions in line, and all is cool:
1) You genuinely sorry - Y/N
2) You never screw another geezer as long as you with other bloke - Y/N
3) You love and wanna marry this geezer still - Y/N
4) You know you shouldn't tell him if you wanna keep things happy - Y/N
5) You gonna tell him - Y/N

that's it


i see cheating right there! :eek: that evil king of mine goes hugging ppl unnecessarily :p:

to OP: yea just answer those questions by king evil and you shall then knw what to do. quite frankly, dont tell him. if you do, that'll just ruin what you both have.
You made a mistake. Sadly you have to face up to that. I know this goes agaist other's advice, but maybe you should tell him. You're engaged and want to spend the rest of your life with this guy, if you just try to pretend nothing ever happened, it will eat away at you, and most relationships built on lies won't hold for lon. The truth always finds a way of coming out. Ultimetly the decsion is yours, but if you're going to learn from this you have to face the consequences of your actions however bad they may be. Plus you never know, you may be able to out this behind you both.
Reply 14
Not telling him is akin to laying the foundations of a future divorce.

Apologise profusely to him, and admit your mistake. You're going to have a horrible time facing up to him initially, but you'll get over it.

If he truly loves you (enough), he'll overlook this, and the both of you can move on.

Communication is #1 in any relationship.
Reply 15
layla*
i see cheating right there! :eek: that evil king of mine goes hugging ppl unnecessarily :p:

to OP: yea just answer those questions by king evil and you shall then knw what to do. quite frankly, dont tell him. if you do, that'll just ruin what you both have.


Ah... jealous. I just giving advice...

I'm flattered thoguh, you want me so bad you checking my every move... oh darling how lovely :hugs: anyway, as you said I'm evil... hence... do stuff like this.
Reply 16
yaeh i agree but i could not deal with it being over and in would find that too hard he his my life and yes i made a mistake but do i want to pay fo that forever
Reply 17
creamcrackered
Ah... jealous. I just giving advice...

I'm flattered thoguh, you want me so bad you checking my every move... oh darling how lovely :hugs: anyway, as you said I'm evil... hence... do stuff like this.


hmph. never trust this evil king. he doesn't know what he's talking about. utter rubbish. just cheated on his wedding night. :frown:
Reply 18
don't tell him, for the best interest of you and him - as long as you are sure you won't say anything out loud, even when you are drunk
Reply 19
Anonymous
yaeh i agree but i could not deal with it being over and in would find that too hard he his my life and yes i made a mistake but do i want to pay fo that forever


Answer the questions...

Bearing in mind, if you are happy with turning a blind on the moral issues here, then it should be okay