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quick gauge of opinions: if you broke up with your girlfriend, she went and snogged a few of your mates and then, six months, later wants you back, would you take her back? the girl in question matters a lot to me, but i think i have am extreme case of jealousy!

Reply 1

SeanC

1

god no.. I'm definitely a one strike kinda guy.. but hey I'm impateitn and perhaps overly demanding :P if she was willing to try and hurt you emotionally before she isnt worth your time.

Reply 2

q1w2e3r4t5y

If she was sober, then she sounds like trouble to me.

Reply 3

jb_sweden

Anonymous

,would you take her back?

I don't know much of the situation, due to your rather uninformative post. From the information given, all I can say is...

Jesus, don't you have the slightest self-respect?

Reply 4

SciFi25

1

I wouldn't if I were you. It seems she is only coming back to you because she thinks you will take her back as she has obviously been rejected by all your mates!!

My advice, don't be a doormat! You only get one chance in life to be happy so why waste it with someone who is likely to cheat again!

Reply 5

dreamer86

1

Anonymous

quick gauge of opinions: if you broke up with your girlfriend, she went and snogged a few of your mates and then, six months, later wants you back, would you take her back? the girl in question matters a lot to me, but i think i have am extreme case of jealousy!

did you break up with her?

Reply 6

so_this_is_sam

3

Did you say you broke up with her? Because she may well have got with your mates to make you jealous...it isnt the most mature thing to do but i dont really blame her. It certainly worked didnt it?

Reply 7

thegreatstupendo

2

Do you want to be with her again? Do you still fancy her? If yes, then go for it, if no, don't.

Reply 8

Adarah

16

did she snog your mates before you broke up, or did she snog them afterwards - hence the jealousness?
sounds to me like you broke up with her, since then though your mates have got off with her, making you realise that she's actually very desirable and so you want her back?
well, if you do want her back, I think you could try, but after how you broke up with her she might not want you back, you know...

Reply 9

Mangaroo

12

one strike.

Reply 10

WokSz

17

No way! A girl who does something like that isn't worth your time. I'd rather be alone, than be with a girl who's been around like that.
Oh and I'd also tell my friends to take a hike if they kissed her after I was with her.

Reply 11

dan1982

To hard to guage, id say no! but in my heart i know tis not that simple. If i had very strong feelings for her, then i probably would, especially if i had no other option or wasnt very good at meeting other girls.

Its down to you mate, she didnt exactly sleep with anyone else. I would say if your still young, and know it wont really last forever, then do it.
Some relationships you know will never end in marriage, but there good for a couple of years practice, fun :biggrin:

Reply 12

Mark S

17

Anonymous

quick gauge of opinions: if you broke up with your girlfriend, she went and snogged a few of your mates and then, six months, later wants you back, would you take her back? the girl in question matters a lot to me, but i think i have am extreme case of jealousy!

Probably, just for sex.

Reply 13

Sags_3

1

nooo dont take her back. Shes obv desperate

Reply 14

minibailey27

don't take her back, no way!

Reply 15

pol_student

8

To be honest, it depends on the specific circumstances of the situation, but seen as we don't have much info, I would, as general rule, probably, have to go with the one strike rule.

But, only you can really decide if you can trust her, and feel comfortable with her enough again to get back with her?...

Reply 16

Gio

3

Markus Angelsdaughter

Probably, just for sex.

:dito: could only catch up for some sex, nothing else

Reply 17

Caribou

1

Nein.

Reply 18

bullyfish

12

Dont take her back, but then again, i hope you didnt give your friends the same curtesy either...

Reply 19

El Scotto

15

Anonymous

quick gauge of opinions: if you broke up with your girlfriend, she went and snogged a few of your mates and then, six months, later wants you back, would you take her back? the girl in question matters a lot to me, but i think i have am extreme case of jealousy!

Nah, If she really felt anything for you she wouldnt of played the revenge card and snogged ur mates.

What ya could do is try and get evens? Pull a couple of her friends then think about it.

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