Does it take this long?

me and my ex split a few months ago and since then iv felt sooo mad at him (cos it was his fault we split). its only recently that iv started to really miss him and its making me very miserable. I dont see him and only rarely chat to him on msn so iv had v lil contact with him since we split - its only now that its hit me that the relationship is over. I wish i could go back to being mad at him cos i felt fine then. Has anyone else felt like this? Help!!

Reply 1

sweetface.

Just move on. Take what you have learned from that relationship and find another guy to show your love to.

Reply 2

Phantom Phoenix

Don't talk to him at all; it might be staying in touch - however infrequently - that's keeping you from moving on. I've been through this too (I took MONTHS getting over my last ex) and it does get better :hugs:

Reply 3

username54863

All it takes is time, move on to idealising someone else, like a celeb or something, that way they can't pretend they still like you and lul you back in only to throw it back in your face (yes that's what happened to me), anyways time heals all these sorts of wounds. Definately don't talk to them though that makes it harder.