how can you have a good time with him there?

I've got a party tonight and the guy I like is going too. We've been getting on well lately but he's suddenly turned very nonchalent (sp) and so that's made me determined to not act like a soppy fourteen year old that falls apart everytime he's near (even though I do...)

Everytime I see him though I want things to happen because they have in the past - and I end up getting angry because I'd much rather be having a good time than concentrating on every look he gives me. I end up feeling miserable and in turn, this gets my friends down.

So..anyone got any tips as to how I can just have a good time even with him there?

Reply 1

zav

Look around and see if there is anyone else you like at the party. Ignore him and chat to some other guys and it will make you feel much better. He might take more notice then anyway and really want you.

Reply 2

Shihan

Try to ignore him more than usuall if he knows you like him. He'll go crazy pretty quickly thinking 'Why the hell is she ignoring me?' then he'll probably come and speak with you etc and if u play your cards right then who knows, or you try my time tested method of getting very drunk and going round trying to get as many people (boys and girls) to kiss you. he'll soon get jelous either that or you work your way around the room until you get to him. lol! :biggrin: