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Reply 1
guest1984
*cries*


:frown: I know how much that sucks. And I am sure that most people do... it would be abnormal if there were no problems in any family.
Hope things get better for you though...
Reply 2
hapa_girl
:frown: I know how much that sucks. And I am sure that most people do... it would be abnormal if there were no problems in any family.
Hope things get better for you though...


Thanks

:cool:
May I ask exactly what your family problem involves so as I may help if possible.

Of course, if you do not want to share this I will understand.
Reply 4
Sorted Now

:smile:
thank god everything seems so sortable to you! it'sa pity it's not the same for me... my family is a lie... it's no family... my parents now try to convince us that it is but to be honest, with their example, i don't believe in family anymore. it's horrible, but it's the harsh reality. it hurts so much when someone like ur dad who has always been an arse to u and the rest of ur family suddenly tries to change, and ur mother who had always been against him for very plausible reasons is now 'on his side' and i'm the one who is wrong. it's unbelievable. may god forbid this happening to other families. most of u will not know what it is to suffer so much, and parents don't even understand (although they will always tell u they do, no matter what). i'm sick and tired of this, because to be honest, because of the things i've been through i don't even consider myself to have had a proper childhood. my childhood ended when i was 7 (if i ever had a childhood). and believe me, wht happens at home REALLY does affect you in skl. i've done all my efforts to sort of "reconstruct" my life now (im 16 now btw). bt i dn't believe in families anymore - it's just bull**** most the time. i just hope one day i'll be happier and all of this sh*t ive been through will have helped me grow (even though i've already grown too much, prematurely!)
may god bless all the children, sons and daughters so that they are spared from others' problems. all of us deserve to be happy, no matter what we have been told. god bless all of you.
Reply 6
Parents should be locked up, they cause more harm than good!
SciFi25
Parents should be locked up, they cause more harm than good!


definitely. and isn't it funny how they think we're the problem-causers?!
Meh, it's abnormal if your family ISN'T messed up, to be honest.
Reply 9
Anonymous
thank god everything seems so sortable to you! it'sa pity it's not the same for me... my family is a lie... it's no family... my parents now try to convince us that it is but to be honest, with their example, i don't believe in family anymore. it's horrible, but it's the harsh reality. it hurts so much when someone like ur dad who has always been an arse to u and the rest of ur family suddenly tries to change, and ur mother who had always been against him for very plausible reasons is now 'on his side' and i'm the one who is wrong. it's unbelievable. may god forbid this happening to other families. most of u will not know what it is to suffer so much, and parents don't even understand (although they will always tell u they do, no matter what). i'm sick and tired of this, because to be honest, because of the things i've been through i don't even consider myself to have had a proper childhood. my childhood ended when i was 7 (if i ever had a childhood). and believe me, wht happens at home REALLY does affect you in skl. i've done all my efforts to sort of "reconstruct" my life now (im 16 now btw). bt i dn't believe in families anymore - it's just bull**** most the time. i just hope one day i'll be happier and all of this sh*t ive been through will have helped me grow (even though i've already grown too much, prematurely!)
may god bless all the children, sons and daughters so that they are spared from others' problems. all of us deserve to be happy, no matter what we have been told. god bless all of you.


awwww you need a hug :hugs:
what's so horrible about your childhood? if you don't mind me asking.... :confused:
Reply 10
layla*
awwww you need a hug :hugs:
what's so horrible about your childhood? if you don't mind me asking.... :confused:


I stolen her sweets

:smile:
Reply 11
guest1984
I stolen her sweets

:smile:


:eek:
you must be punished for doing such a thing!
give those sweets back! if you ate them already, then buy other sweets for her.

EDIT: :hugs: hugs u too for your previous family problems.
Reply 12
layla*
:eek:
you must be punished for doing such a thing!
give those sweets back! if you ate them already, then buy other sweets for her.

EDIT: :hugs: hugs u too for your previous family problems.


Yes MISTRESS!

I NEED TO BE PUNISHED!

I'll give some of her sweets to you!

:smile:

Her sweets were very tasty and creamy! :wink:

I'll buy some for her, if she's a good girl! :wink:

Thanks for the hugs

*Cuddles*

:cool:
layla*
awwww you need a hug :hugs:
what's so horrible about your childhood? if you don't mind me asking.... :confused:

thank u! hugs to you two!
well... whats wrong with my childhood... dad cheating on mum several times? mum having enough? dad beating up mum? child getting in the way to stop dad from hurting mum? going to skl and mum would cry, scream and sometimes beat you because she was completely devastated? dad pointing a knife at mum and child seeing it?
just a few examples... but the worst was the suffering caused by all of this of course, and also, the way parents seem to forget this and blame son for their family probs...
it's life and i've moved on thankfully, but of course it's going to stay with me forever.
Reply 14
Anonymous
thank u! hugs to you two!
well... whats wrong with my childhood... dad cheating on mum several times? mum having enough? dad beating up mum? child getting in the way to stop dad from hurting mum? going to skl and mum would cry, scream and sometimes beat you because she was completely devastated? dad pointing a knife at mum and child seeing it?
just a few examples... but the worst was the suffering caused by all of this of course, and also, the way parents seem to forget this and blame son for their family probs...
it's life and i've moved on thankfully, but of course it's going to stay with me forever.


You be okay!

*High Five*

:smile:
Reply 15
we all hav eproblems but somehow we always think that we are worse off when compared 2 others but it totally not true i have found!
:frown: i dont know what i can say :frown: just try to stay positive..make more out of your life than any of your family have. you dont need to settle for the same mistakes
so_this_is_sam
:frown: i dont know what i can say :frown: just try to stay positive..make more out of your life than any of your family have. you dont need to settle for the same mistakes

thank you all for your support. i certainly will look on the bright side of things, as we only live life once, therefore we should live it fully. for that reason, i've chosen to move on and live my life as normally as possible (as not many people know about my family's past situation, and those who do might not even know most of the bad stuff, so that is better in a way, as it sounds so surreal that they might not even believe it... anyway). so hopefully life will be less hard on me (from now on). a least, let's look on the bright side of things! :wink:
really, thank you all for your kind words. all the best to all of you!