Unrequited love....

OP

Sparkey

That doesn't work just makes you feel slutty and Worse :frown:

I second that, it's totally not the answer :frown:

Reply 22

AT82

I find its best just to block it out, pretend it dosn't exist, I've had far too much pain in the past from things that never came to anything.

At least while you're down you can't go down any further, i.e you have nothing to loose.

Reply 23

OP

Mr White

Would you care to elaborate? Now that I know that this man isn't a figment of your imagination, I'm more than willing to lend you assistance with my wonderful brain.

Hmmm.... well it's a very long story. I've known him for ages, way before he was engaged/married/a father. He knows how I feel about him, we have talked about him and he said he was flattered... I think he thinks it's a bit ridiculous though, that's part of why it's so painful :'(
*bursts into tears again*

I saw him today by the way, which is why i'm feeling a bit sensitive at the mo.

Reply 24

pedy1986

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Sparkey

That doesn't work just makes you feel slutty and Worse :frown:

Is there something wrong with being a slut?

Reply 25

Sparkey

corey

Is there something wrong with being a slut?

If i said yes i'd be a hypocrit :wink:

Reply 26

Mr White

Eeyore

Hmmm.... well it's a very long story. I've known him for ages, way before he was engaged/married/a father. He knows how I feel about him, we have talked about him and he said he was flattered... I think he thinks it's a bit ridiculous though, that's part of why it's so painful :'(
*bursts into tears again*

I saw him today by the way, which is why i'm feeling a bit sensitive at the mo.

He's married, you realise? I have a couple of questions. 1. how old is he? 2. does he reciprocate?

Reply 27

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Mr White

He's married, you realise? I have a couple of questions. 1. how old is he? 2. does he reciprocate?

i think the answer to number 2 is in the thread title

Reply 28

OP

Mr White

He's married, you realise? I have a couple of questions. 1. how old is he? 2. does he reciprocate?

1. 33
2. He likes me, but only in a fatherly way :frown:

He always kisses me on the cheek though :smile:

I see him every week, and it's the highlight of every week.

I'm such an amazingly sad person :frown:

Reply 29

Sparkey

Eeyore

I'm such an amazingly sad person :frown:

Your not sad your a teenager. Teens + Hormones = Crushes on unatainable people.

Life's a bitch :frown:

Reply 30

Mr White

Eeyore

1. 33
2. He likes me, but only in a fatherly way :frown:

He always kisses me on the cheek though :smile:

I see him every week, and it's the highlight of every week.

I'm such an amazingly sad person :frown:

Okay, I can safetly conclude that you are deluded. 33? There's a name for 17 year old girls who go out with 33 year old married men.

It sounds like misplaced patriachal desire to me.

Reply 31

OP

Mr White

Okay, I can safetly conclude that you are deluded. 33? There's a name for 17 year old girls who go out with 33 year old married men.

It sounds like misplaced patriachal desire to me.

I'm not going out with him. Nor ever will be.

Reply 32

jammyd

Mr White

There's a name for 17 year old girls who go out with 33 year old married men.

If you switch the gender's around, you guys would be talking about MILF's and Mrs Robinson.

Reply 33

Mr White

Eeyore

I'm not going out with him. Nor ever will be.

Still, this type of stunted infatuation is unhealthy.

Reply 34

blissy

Mr White

Still, this type of stunted infatuation is unhealthy.

Unhealthy yes, but not abnormal. You'll get over him sooner or later and then wonder what the fuss was all about (trust me here).

Reply 35

Specialheffa

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Well, i know how she feels, but the man i love IS in love with me, yet we can't get it together... he married (my teacher)... you know you both want it, but it's .... unattainable! lol.. ah well...

Wait till i get my hands on the uni lads!! :wink:

Reply 36

Kurdt Morello

Unrequited love is the problem of the fallen modern man who is constantly evolving - we all suffer from it at some point and I will inevitably be upset when it finally happens to me :biggrin:

Reply 37

OP