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    (Original post by Eeyore)
    No, far from it
    Would you care to elaborate? Now that I know that this man isn't a figment of your imagination, I'm more than willing to lend you assistance with my wonderful brain.
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    (Original post by Sparkey)
    That doesn't work just makes you feel slutty and Worse
    I second that, it's totally not the answer
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    I find its best just to block it out, pretend it dosn't exist, I've had far too much pain in the past from things that never came to anything.

    At least while you're down you can't go down any further, i.e you have nothing to loose.
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    (Original post by Mr White)
    Would you care to elaborate? Now that I know that this man isn't a figment of your imagination, I'm more than willing to lend you assistance with my wonderful brain.
    Hmmm.... well it's a very long story. I've known him for ages, way before he was engaged/married/a father. He knows how I feel about him, we have talked about him and he said he was flattered... I think he thinks it's a bit ridiculous though, that's part of why it's so painful :'(
    *bursts into tears again*

    I saw him today by the way, which is why i'm feeling a bit sensitive at the mo.
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    (Original post by Sparkey)
    That doesn't work just makes you feel slutty and Worse
    Is there something wrong with being a slut?
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    (Original post by corey)
    Is there something wrong with being a slut?
    If i said yes i'd be a hypocrit
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    (Original post by Eeyore)
    Hmmm.... well it's a very long story. I've known him for ages, way before he was engaged/married/a father. He knows how I feel about him, we have talked about him and he said he was flattered... I think he thinks it's a bit ridiculous though, that's part of why it's so painful :'(
    *bursts into tears again*

    I saw him today by the way, which is why i'm feeling a bit sensitive at the mo.
    He's married, you realise? I have a couple of questions. 1. how old is he? 2. does he reciprocate?
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    (Original post by Mr White)
    He's married, you realise? I have a couple of questions. 1. how old is he? 2. does he reciprocate?
    i think the answer to number 2 is in the thread title
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    (Original post by Mr White)
    He's married, you realise? I have a couple of questions. 1. how old is he? 2. does he reciprocate?
    1. 33
    2. He likes me, but only in a fatherly way He always kisses me on the cheek though
    I see him every week, and it's the highlight of every week.

    I'm such an amazingly sad person
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    (Original post by Eeyore)
    I'm such an amazingly sad person
    Your not sad your a teenager. Teens + Hormones = Crushes on unatainable people.

    Life's a *****
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    (Original post by Eeyore)
    1. 33
    2. He likes me, but only in a fatherly way He always kisses me on the cheek though
    I see him every week, and it's the highlight of every week.

    I'm such an amazingly sad person
    Okay, I can safetly conclude that you are deluded. 33? There's a name for 17 year old girls who go out with 33 year old married men.

    It sounds like misplaced patriachal desire to me.
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    (Original post by Mr White)
    Okay, I can safetly conclude that you are deluded. 33? There's a name for 17 year old girls who go out with 33 year old married men.

    It sounds like misplaced patriachal desire to me.
    I'm not going out with him. Nor ever will be.
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    (Original post by Mr White)
    There's a name for 17 year old girls who go out with 33 year old married men.
    If you switch the gender's around, you guys would be talking about ****'s and Mrs Robinson.
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    (Original post by Eeyore)
    I'm not going out with him. Nor ever will be.
    Still, this type of stunted infatuation is unhealthy.
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    (Original post by Mr White)
    Still, this type of stunted infatuation is unhealthy.

    Unhealthy yes, but not abnormal. You'll get over him sooner or later and then wonder what the fuss was all about (trust me here).
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    Well, i know how she feels, but the man i love IS in love with me, yet we can't get it together... he married (my teacher)... you know you both want it, but it's .... unattainable! lol.. ah well...

    Wait till i get my hands on the uni lads!!
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    Unrequited love is the problem of the fallen modern man who is constantly evolving - we all suffer from it at some point and I will inevitably be upset when it finally happens to me
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    (Original post by Mr White)
    Still, this type of stunted infatuation is unhealthy.
    Stunted?
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    Corey you are fantastic.

    You really dont want to hear this but the best way to get over him and move on with your life is to stop seeing him completely otherwise you will be miserable forever.
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    What's the longest anyone's been in unrequited love with the same person?

    Can anyone beat 4 years? :confused:
 
 
 
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