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Anyone else have this problem and overcome it? For years, I've failed to ejaculate during intercourse or otherwise with a variety of partners.
Also, I was reading this [URL="article"]http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/001954.htm[/URL about it and then found out that the average bloke takes two to four minutes to get his joy which sounds surprisingly early.
Any medics able to confirm or deny that? It sounds so short that it is premature.
Also, I was reading this [URL="article"]http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/001954.htm[/URL about it and then found out that the average bloke takes two to four minutes to get his joy which sounds surprisingly early.
Any medics able to confirm or deny that? It sounds so short that it is premature.
I'd say that 'naturally' it takes me about 10 minutes. Of course, during intercourse I'd go longer, by concentrating on not ejaculating... but yeah, if I was being selfish 10 minutes would do it. I'd probably find it hard to finish in under about 7 or 8 minutes, even if I really tried.
cielo
Some girls like delayed ejaculation as there's more chance of them reaching orgasm too.
Yeah but, who cares if they enjoy it more? It still sucks when you have to finish yourself off. I remember once at a party I was getting a blowjob from some random girl, and it was so unbelievably awful that I had to make up an excuse and then have a **** in the en-suite. What a let down. Seriously she was going for like 20 minutes and I just had to say "Sorry love, this is just not pleasant at all".
If you "have failed to ejaculate" that's a massive delay!
2 to 4 is the average? Sounds premature!!
President_Ben
2 to 4 is the average? Sounds premature!!
Not a bad score if you're playing soggy biscuit though.
spunk trumpet
Not a bad score if you're playing soggy biscuit though.
Erm, yes. I suppose so.
[QUOTE="Anonymous"]Anyone else have this problem and overcome it? For years, I've failed to ejaculate during intercourse or otherwise with a variety of partners.
Also, I was reading this http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/001954.htm[/URL about it and then found out that the average bloke takes two to four minutes to get his joy which sounds surprisingly early.
Any medics able to confirm or deny that? It sounds so short that it is premature.
that does sound a litle on the short side tbh
and wow on the twenty mins thing. is it possible to be bad at giving a bj???
Also, I was reading this http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/001954.htm[/URL about it and then found out that the average bloke takes two to four minutes to get his joy which sounds surprisingly early.
Any medics able to confirm or deny that? It sounds so short that it is premature.
that does sound a litle on the short side tbh
and wow on the twenty mins thing. is it possible to be bad at giving a bj???
and wow on the twenty mins thing. is it possible to be bad at giving a bj???
Yes. So bad things are a flop. As it were.
haha that sounds embarassing
high priestess fnord
that does sound a litle on the short side tbh
and wow on the twenty mins thing. is it possible to be bad at giving a bj???
and wow on the twenty mins thing. is it possible to be bad at giving a bj???
Yes, yes it is. It is not a fecking ice cream ladies.
*glad to have natural talent* XD
high priestess fnord
that does sound a litle on the short side tbh
and wow on the twenty mins thing. is it possible to be bad at giving a bj???
and wow on the twenty mins thing. is it possible to be bad at giving a bj???
20 mins is quite a while but it's not that long...Most adults don't take 5 or 10 mins to come. I've gone down on a girl for much longer (with little breaks for her..and me to recover).
but thats on a girl. v different
From the other end of the scale its not as great either. I swear its so hard to please women.
One second you hear its long the better then they tell you too long gets boring, so i must assume its somewhere in the middle, which is about 30mins.
I had the problem which i hope is gone now, because of being a nearly fullblown alcy that i could for about an hour, espeically when slightly drunk.
Thats nearly as bad as 2-4minutes, and damn tiring.
Ptractise makes perfect in this case, and 30minutes is your goal.
One second you hear its long the better then they tell you too long gets boring, so i must assume its somewhere in the middle, which is about 30mins.
I had the problem which i hope is gone now, because of being a nearly fullblown alcy that i could for about an hour, espeically when slightly drunk.
Thats nearly as bad as 2-4minutes, and damn tiring.
Ptractise makes perfect in this case, and 30minutes is your goal.
I have had this problem when my gf and I first started out; we managed to overcome it after a couple of months and it ceased to be a problem.
You would think a girl would like it, because you can last a long time, but they really don’t it makes girls very insecure if you cannot cum from sex with them.
We discovered a particular position that worked every time, from behind with the girl lying down legs together and the guy straddling. The girl can squeeze her legs tightly together and clench her bottom to make it tighter and create more friction at the right moment. This worked so well that we just ended up having sex for ages each time and then finishing me off in this position. Once there was no pressure it became easier, and then every so often I would cum in other positions when I was really really turned on. But its still great to have old faithful in the arsenal! Now I have incredible control over when I cum so I can really focus on her pleasure, its great. We even managed the elusive simultaneous orgasm a couple of times.
So just keep at it! If you can orgasm from manual stimulation you will get there eventually!
PS I rarely orgasm from blowjobs, I require some vigorous hand involvement from her too.
You would think a girl would like it, because you can last a long time, but they really don’t it makes girls very insecure if you cannot cum from sex with them.
We discovered a particular position that worked every time, from behind with the girl lying down legs together and the guy straddling. The girl can squeeze her legs tightly together and clench her bottom to make it tighter and create more friction at the right moment. This worked so well that we just ended up having sex for ages each time and then finishing me off in this position. Once there was no pressure it became easier, and then every so often I would cum in other positions when I was really really turned on. But its still great to have old faithful in the arsenal! Now I have incredible control over when I cum so I can really focus on her pleasure, its great. We even managed the elusive simultaneous orgasm a couple of times.
So just keep at it! If you can orgasm from manual stimulation you will get there eventually!
PS I rarely orgasm from blowjobs, I require some vigorous hand involvement from her too.
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