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holiday "romances"

ok so me and about 8 or 9 others have booked a hol to greece this summer and all they seem to talk about is 'getting it'. is this just what people do when they go abroad or something?

Reply 1

Lush Law

15

If it's a Club 18-30s holiday, then yes. Go for it. My advice is to sleep with as many people as possible.

Reply 2

Longshoredrift80

10

Take plenty of condoms if that's the intention.

Reply 3

TKR

15

totes

Reply 4

fakeplasticsmee

8

However if you want more to your holiday don't feel you should do what they're doing. You can enjoy yourself plenty without that.

Although personally.... :wink:

Reply 5

silverbolt

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RR

If it's a Club 18-30s holiday, then yes. Go for it. My advice is to sleep with as many people as possible.

well agreed
just bring protection and always go to a safe place

Reply 6

chocmonster

1

some people do. a couple of my mates did when we went to magaluf last summer, i personally didnt....just do what you feel like, but be safe! :smile:

Reply 7

high priestess fnord

9

ive no idea why its ok to go abroad and have a fling when its seen as not ok to have one with someone here. i personally would be more likely to sleep with someone closer to home and keep my holiday time for doing things i cant do in my own bedroom.

Reply 8

Anonymous #2

ARGH!! I absolutely HATE it when people sleep around and think it's no big deal.

What is wrong with you people? Why would you go on holiday just to get as many shags as possible? Do you have absolutely no respect for yourself? I think it's gross.

I would never, ever consider sleeping with some random guy who I've never met and will never see again. I have more respect for my body than that, and I wouldn't personally want to do something so cheap and unfulfilling.

Reply 9

PinkPigeon

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Anonymous

ARGH!! I absolutely HATE it when people sleep around and think it's no big deal.

What is wrong with you people? Why would you go on holiday just to get as many shags as possible? Do you have absolutely no respect for yourself? I think it's gross.

I would never, ever consider sleeping with some random guy who I've never met and will never see again. I have more respect for my body than that, and I wouldn't personally want to do something so cheap and unfulfilling.

Fair enough, that's your opinion but everyone is entitled to theirs, it doesn't make people any less valid...and it doesn't necessarily mean they have any less respect for themselves.

Let's make it clear, I don't sleep about, it's not something I want to do, I like relationships and sex paired with love, it's very empty without it for me. But I can certainly see why humans might want to just have casual sex and as long as they are safe, both people are happy with what's going on and it doesn't interfere with anyone else, there's no need to have a go at those who chose to have sex in that way.

Like most things, it's very much a game of personal opinion and whatever makes the individual feel satisfied personally.

Reply 10

high priestess fnord

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Anonymous

I would never, ever consider sleeping with some random guy who I've never met and will never see again. I have more respect for my body than that, and I wouldn't personally want to do something so cheap and unfulfilling.

i have alot more respect for my body than you because im not ashamed of my own sexual desires.

how do you know its unfulfilling if you have never tried it?

Reply 11

hapa_girl

7

the idea of sleeping around on an 18-30 makes me wretch.

Reply 12

Anonymous #2

high priestess fnord

i have alot more respect for my body than you because im not ashamed of my own sexual desires.

how do you know its unfulfilling if you have never tried it?

You're right - you shouldn't be ashamed of your own sexual desires. However, do you honestly think that letting a bunch of complete strangers have sex with you, (strangers who couldn't care less about you as a person and simply want to use your body to give themselves pleasure) is showing respect for your body???

And you don't need to have tried it to know that something so cheap would be unfulfilling. It's logical. Sex where there's a connection between two people is going to leave you satisfied both physically and emotionally. If you're doing it on a Club 18-30s holiday with that guy you met in a club, then you're not going to be emotionally satisfied, and as for the physical...well, you'll probably have some kind of S.T.I as a souvenir of your HIGHLY fulfilling sexual experience. :smile:

Reply 13

HammerTime

18-30 holidays and the stereotypical activities that go with such seem like a rather odd way to enjoy yourself to me...

Just my opinion if others enjoy that sytle of holiday then fair play to them :smile:

Reply 14

high priestess fnord

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Anonymous

You're right - you shouldn't be ashamed of your own sexual desires. However, do you honestly think that letting a bunch of complete strangers have sex with you, (strangers who couldn't care less about you as a person and simply want to use your body to give themselves pleasure) is showing respect for your body???

And you don't need to have tried it to know that something so cheap would be unfulfilling. It's logical. Sex where there's a connection between two people is going to leave you satisfied both physically and emotionally. If you're doing it on a Club 18-30s holiday with that guy you met in a club, then you're not going to be emotionally satisfied, and as for the physical...well, you'll probably have some kind of S.T.I as a souvenir of your HIGHLY fulfilling sexual experience. :smile:

sex in a chavy holiday club doesnt sound very appealing your right. but sex with a hot stranger? yes why not. sex can still be satisfing and great fun even with someone you dont love. you just have to pick the right guy.

as for the STI thing. thats what condoms are for.