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Hiya - this is the best way to get this thing out i think as none of my frineds no what has happened an it is eating me up inside.
I was going out with this boy we had only just started going out when it was my 18th party non of my frineds knew we were a item then but we danced and he wanted a kiss as no one knew i said no and that he would have to wait so he went a kissed on of my friends as she did not no we were an item - however i forgave him as a lot of drink was involved
After we had been going out for a long while we decided to do it, but because of my bad luck the condom broke - he was really nice and we with me to get the morning after pill and take pregency test after a month - i wasnt thank god.
We were then really strong.
Then one evening when i got in from work i had this email from him saying that he was really sorry but this girl had kissed him whilst he had been out - it was totally not his fault and that he had pulled away straight away - he told me that he loved me and didnt want to lose me over somethign that wasnt his fault. - i forgave him as i thought he was teling the truth
then a few weeks later i came in from work again this time i had another email saying that he had got off with four other girls and that he didnt mean to , he said that he was sooooo drunk and hadnt known what he was doing we broke up for about a week and that when my frineds think we have been split up since.
But he kept telling me how sorry he was and how it would never happen again so i took him back ( i no im really stupid) so i started going back out with him - it went back to how it used to be - fun and then we went out clubbing one evening where he got soooo drunk that i had to drag him home - i was sooo mad but he told me that he loved me more then drink and would never drink a stupid amount again. we then book a hotel and went away for a few day - it was the second time we did it since it broke and i thought everyting had worked out well, the holiday was great even tough we did argue a lot at one point - then when we got home we both went out again but not together he keep texting me saying meet up i love you and stuff but i couldnt as i didnt have enough money to get in - we meet up the next day and had a huge arguement - he then dumpt me.
As i was talking to him on msn he got really mad and said that he was glad that he had hurt me and that he knew stuff that would destroy me when i sasked him what he said that the night he kissed four girls he also did more stuff!!! i was deverstated as he had taken me away on a holiday knowing that he had slept with this other girl, now he keeps saying sorry but says he doesnt want to be taken back which is good coz i would never take him back but its annoying me that he thinks that i would have him back - he also always stares at me in school which is pissing me off - after all this why cant i just get him out of my head??? i cant talk to none of my friends as they thought we broke up when he cheated. the other things that i dont get why its bothering me is that he keeps making it obvious that he is texting other girls on his phone - why should it bother me i dont love him anymore i dont even like it so why it getting to me?
Sorry i really have blab on this time
I was going out with this boy we had only just started going out when it was my 18th party non of my frineds knew we were a item then but we danced and he wanted a kiss as no one knew i said no and that he would have to wait so he went a kissed on of my friends as she did not no we were an item - however i forgave him as a lot of drink was involved
After we had been going out for a long while we decided to do it, but because of my bad luck the condom broke - he was really nice and we with me to get the morning after pill and take pregency test after a month - i wasnt thank god.
We were then really strong.
Then one evening when i got in from work i had this email from him saying that he was really sorry but this girl had kissed him whilst he had been out - it was totally not his fault and that he had pulled away straight away - he told me that he loved me and didnt want to lose me over somethign that wasnt his fault. - i forgave him as i thought he was teling the truth
then a few weeks later i came in from work again this time i had another email saying that he had got off with four other girls and that he didnt mean to , he said that he was sooooo drunk and hadnt known what he was doing we broke up for about a week and that when my frineds think we have been split up since.
But he kept telling me how sorry he was and how it would never happen again so i took him back ( i no im really stupid) so i started going back out with him - it went back to how it used to be - fun and then we went out clubbing one evening where he got soooo drunk that i had to drag him home - i was sooo mad but he told me that he loved me more then drink and would never drink a stupid amount again. we then book a hotel and went away for a few day - it was the second time we did it since it broke and i thought everyting had worked out well, the holiday was great even tough we did argue a lot at one point - then when we got home we both went out again but not together he keep texting me saying meet up i love you and stuff but i couldnt as i didnt have enough money to get in - we meet up the next day and had a huge arguement - he then dumpt me.
As i was talking to him on msn he got really mad and said that he was glad that he had hurt me and that he knew stuff that would destroy me when i sasked him what he said that the night he kissed four girls he also did more stuff!!! i was deverstated as he had taken me away on a holiday knowing that he had slept with this other girl, now he keeps saying sorry but says he doesnt want to be taken back which is good coz i would never take him back but its annoying me that he thinks that i would have him back - he also always stares at me in school which is pissing me off - after all this why cant i just get him out of my head??? i cant talk to none of my friends as they thought we broke up when he cheated. the other things that i dont get why its bothering me is that he keeps making it obvious that he is texting other girls on his phone - why should it bother me i dont love him anymore i dont even like it so why it getting to me?
Sorry i really have blab on this time
Reply 2
To be honest, he sounds like a right idiot.
Just try your best to forget about him and move on - don't give him the satisfaction of thinking you still like him.
Just try your best to forget about him and move on - don't give him the satisfaction of thinking you still like him.
Reply 4
what are friends for.. they are there to support and comfort you during bad times. tell them. i know you will feel better if you have unburdened the awful thing that your boyfriend did to you. he's not worth your love. move on. don't give him the satisfaction by showing him how affected you are that he is texting other girls. act nonchalant. even though it hurts, don't let it show. be strong.
Reply 5
shyr_15
what are friends for.. they are there to support and comfort you during bad times. tell them. i know you will feel better if you have unburdened the awful thing that your boyfriend did to you. he's not worth your love. move on. don't give him the satisfaction by showing him how affected you are that he is texting other girls. act nonchalant. even though it hurts, don't let it show. be strong.
thank you x x x
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