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Reply 1
Can I just point out that being a virgin at 18 isn't THAT big of a deal... I don't think it really matters at all.
Possibly, it would depend on how mature she is - 18 is at the very bottom age I would date, and generally I would only date someone 18/19 if they were mature for their age / etc. (I am 22).

P.s. The whole virgin thing doesn't affect me either way, I would date a 22 year virgin if I liked her.
Am I right in thinking that if you go with a virgin you'll sort of be like her jedi master, so you'd be teaching her everything? There's potential for crafting her into the perfect GF without douche bags forcing her to behave in silly ways?
her being a virgin or not isnt even a factor to consider
Reply 5
Id prefer to date a virgin & I'm 24 almost.

Maybe it's because I haven't much experience as well but to be honest the tighter the better:P


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Reply 6
Oh, for the love of God, yes. Why does this make a difference? I'm nineteen and quite frankly I couldn't - and wouldn't - care whatsoever. It couldn't be more of a non-issue.
Reply 7
The age (18 or above), and the virgin factor - none issues. Let's start talking about the real issues, that's what the public want. No one gives a toss if you're a virgin or not.
This thread has been done so many times...
Reply 9
Speaking as a twenty-five-year-old non-virgin I'd be astonished to find a girl seven years my junior mature or emotionally-stable enough to consider forming a relationship with, let alone one who'd never had sex, so it certainly wouldn't be the deciding factor for me either way.
Reply 10
I get why you'd think it may be a problem, but any guy who thinks it is is quite immature if you ask me...I'm 19 and a virgin and when I tell people the only reaction is curiousity nothing negative?
Original post by Z.Raymond
I get why you'd think it may be a problem, but any guy who thinks it is is quite immature if you ask me...I'm 19 and a virgin and when I tell people the only reaction is curiousity nothing negative?


While I personally don't have an issue with someone being a virgin, then I don't think it is immature to not want to date a virgin - some people prefer people to have a certain level of sexual experience; how does that make them any more immature to people who prefer someone to be shaved or have bigger breasts?
Reply 12
I'm with rmhumphries insofar that people shouldn't be considered immature for wanting to avoid virgins (although, I would have an issue with it -19 y/o male); lets face it, some people filter potential partners by much more stupid criteria.

Ultimately, isn't it all about love? If you're dating someone and feeling that connection then you shouldn't care either way
Reply 13
Yes as she would be much tighter and it would feel better. Only bad thing would be the blood but I would let her clean it up in the morning before round two.
Reply 14
Original post by rmhumphries
While I personally don't have an issue with someone being a virgin, then I don't think it is immature to not want to date a virgin - some people prefer people to have a certain level of sexual experience; how does that make them any more immature to people who prefer someone to be shaved or have bigger breasts?


I worded it wrong my bad :/ Obviously guys have the right to not want to date a virgin, i meant if someone had basically made her feel that the reason she wasn't good enough was due to that if you get what I am trying to say? Like being a virgin is a bad thing
Reply 15
Much more attracted. Robbing people of their virginity gives me sick, twisted pleasure.
Reply 16
Original post by Anonymous
Would her being a virgin put you off or make you more attracted to her?

Please state your age when answering as well :smile:

Keep anon please



File this under S for Stupid Questions.
Original post by Snagprophet
Am I right in thinking that if you go with a virgin you'll sort of be like her jedi master, so you'd be teaching her everything? There's potential for crafting her into the perfect GF without douche bags forcing her to behave in silly ways?


THIS!

you can also make them believe that a minute and a half IS long enough and it's rare to find someone who lasts more than 5
Reply 18
yes.
It makes her more attractive, cause you know you are the first to get access to her goodies.
I'm 24
Reply 19
Original post by Z.Raymond
I get why you'd think it may be a problem, but any guy who thinks it is is quite immature if you ask me...I'm 19 and a virgin and when I tell people the only reaction is curiousity nothing negative?


you gonna lose it soon with this face and body... Damn