If you can avoid it it would not be a good idea to get involved with the person too deep yet but if you do feel like you have fallen in "love" then I do not see why you cannot let things work out between you.

Reply 10

Bis

keenya2006

Well so yeah...I should just see how things go between me and this sexy (english) man :rolleyes:

You're not coming to England, are you?

Reply 11

Lady Venom

if he is married then NOOOOOOOOOO

But if he isnt then carry on

Reply 12

keenya2006

To answer Bis's question: Yes I am! arent you excited!!??
And well no, he's divorced. The only thing i was worried about was the kid becuase he has custody and stuff and ill feel really old...but i mean otherwise we have common interests and stuff. I mean its not like im 'in love' but i really like him

Reply 13

Invisiblank

keenya2006

And well no, he's divorced. The only thing i was worried about was the kid becuase he has custody and stuff and ill feel really old...but i mean otherwise we have common interests and stuff. I mean its not like im 'in love' but i really like him

Are you thinking about getting serious? Relationships like this can be tricky for a number of reasons but I suppose you have to ask yourself if you think the feelings you have are worth the difficulties

Reply 14

keenya2006

eugh...see if he didnt have a kid and was 20 this wouldnt be an issue..i just wish he didnt have to be

Reply 15

hapa_girl

keenya2006

Do you think its possible for an 18 year old to have a great relationship with a 35 yr old guy that has a7 yr old son :rolleyes:

no.

Reply 16

Anonymous #1

keenya2006

Do you think its possible for an 18 year old to have a great relationship with a 35 yr old guy that has a7 yr old son :rolleyes:

i would like to think so, but then i read the bit about the child. perhaps not such a great idea, surely the son has had enough disruption in his childhood. i dont mean this in a bad way but surely teenagers are quite fickle beings...i say this because i am one. i tend to go for the older man but if there are children then i believe they are then off limits because i am so young myself.