Erm.. somebody i like and what i should do?

Well, hey lol. Im gay right so lets get that striaght :biggrin:

. There is guy that i was seeing for a while and i really, really was getting into him. But he hasnt called me in over a week.. or text.. should i call him? The last time i called he sounded weird.. he said men are only good for sex and weird things like that and made me cry in the end because i was starting to fall for him. I just dont know where i should go with him? i dunno i dont wanna b 2 estranged from him or he might just forget but im not sure if i should call him either. I just miss him aswell, havent seen him in a while.

Reply 1

Tarts_n_Vicars

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Anonymous

Well, hey lol. Im gay right so lets get that striaght :biggrin:

. There is guy that i was seeing for a while and i really, really was getting into him. But he hasnt called me in over a week.. or text.. should i call him? The last time i called he sounded weird.. he said men are only good for sex and weird things like that and made me cry in the end because i was starting to fall for him. I just dont know where i should go with him? i dunno i dont wanna b 2 estranged from him or he might just forget but im not sure if i should call him either. I just miss him aswell, havent seen him in a while.

Ordinarily I'd say go for it but he sounds likes he's got some personal issues going on that maybe you don't want to get caught up in with his whole "men are only good for sex" statement. If he likes you he won't forget about you. You could drop him a text just to say hi but if I were you I'd avoid him....he sounds either messed up or mean, neither of which are good for you.

Reply 2

Lady Venom

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Play it safe, if he hasnt corresponded with you, you are unlikley to be in his thoughts...

Can i be really unsympathetic and say there are plenty more fish in the sea?

Reply 3

rosetinted

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Well the last time you spoke he indicated very clearly that he doesn't want a relationship, just sex. You have to listen to what he said, even if it was kind of hurtful. You want relationship, he wants occasional sex. Sounds like the two needs don't mesh so you'll be happier off finding someone who is interested in something more than a shag. It has happened to me several times, commiserations, it'll get better soon..

Erm.. somebody i like and what i should do?

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