The Student Room Group
Reply 1
isn't the point kind of to bring him to orgasm..?!
Reply 2
well, yes, i will do, but don't people find it a bit icky.
Just wash ur hands well of get a tissue, or whack ur mouth over it
Reply 4
What will you be like when you get to oral sex? :rolleyes:
Reply 5
I wasn't saying I didn't accept it, just that I don't particularly like it.
Yeh fair enough it isn't the most pleasant thing i agree on that!! I think it just takes getting used to!
sophieliz
well, yes, i will do, but don't people find it a bit icky.

Well if it's too icky for ya then I wouldn't expect him to put his mouth or fingers (or penis!) anywhere below your waist or above your knees. :rolleyes:

If you want to do it with the lights out, eyes shut, as quickly as possible in the missionary position then there is a fairly good chance your boyfriend will get a touch disgruntled.

Honestly, there are worse things in life than the "icky" (how I hate that word) nature of some of the bodily fluids encountered during sex. Mind over matter and all that.
Reply 8
i've never been bothered by sperm, and i can't get my bf to orgasm using my hand.. i think i managed once when he helped, but my arm gets tired real quick.. and i've never been able to do it with my mouth either.
the only time sperm bothers me is when it's in my mouth, and it tastes vile. eugh.
its all natural...you should want him to come to orgasm!
If you don't like it that much get him to wear a thin condom. It will be crap for him but at least you wont be put out by a little bit if icky stuff.
sophieliz
When pleasuring a guy with your hand how many of you let him get to orgasm? I personally don't like it and ask him to warn me.


haha I can just imagine the frustration in the guy when you say "now I know you're just about to cum but i'm sorry but i'm guna have to leave you like that, I find it a bit icky you see"

He wont be a happy boy
why not just have sex! Its not as messy and feels great for both! :smile:
Reply 13
grace
isn't the point kind of to bring him to orgasm..?!


Personally, I'd prefer it in the manner of foreplay; but then, I might hardly be deemed a 'voice of experience' on such matters.
Reply 14
so_this_is_sam
its all natural...you should want him to come to orgasm!


You do realise, don't you, that the last two words of that sentence are pretty nigh-on superfluous?
pumpkin7

the only time sperm bothers me is when it's in my mouth, and it tastes vile. eugh.



It's not vile :rolleyes:
Reply 16
what a pointless thread...
Profesh
You do realise, don't you, that the last two words of that sentence are pretty nigh-on superfluous?

In your opinion of course. There are many people who require the ability 'to orgasm'.