Should I?

Hia

Ive met a guy on the internet (myspace) who lives out 15mins away from me. Weve been talking for a few days and im starting to like him, he says he also starting to really like me.
So he wants to meet me, but i get nervous meeting new people, i hate it lol. Also im quite big (size 16/18) and an very self-concious about it, but he says he really doesnt mind.

Do you people think its a good idea to meet up, and do you have any advice?

Thanks in advance

XxX

Reply 1

Tyler Durden

17

Meet in a crowded place yadda yadda... tell someone where you're going yadda yadda... take a flick-knife yadda ya- WHAT??!

Nah, just be careful and use common sense.

Reply 2

Ferrus

19

Meet up with him. The worst that can happen in the worst of all possible worlds is that he kills you and dumps your body in the river. Which isn't very likely, I should imagine he would express his dislike earlier if that were an issue.

Reply 3

MagicNMedicine

20

Anonymous

Also im quite big (size 16/18) and an very self-concious about it, but he says he really doesnt mind.

I bet he doesn't, he's probably about 20 stone himself. And 54 years old.

Reply 4

no1mohsin

13

Yeah, meet in a public place (town centre maybe?) and you say you've been chatting a few days? I would seriously recommend you chat for months before you even consider meeting somebody from online (just my opinion however).

Reply 5

Ferrus

19

MagicNMedicine

I bet he doesn't, he's probably about 20 stone himself. And 54 years old.

Don't forget missing an eye and foot.

Reply 6

Anonymous #1

OP

I bet he doesn't, he's probably about 20 stone himself. And 54 years old.

wEve been on cam 2 each ohter so i know he isnt lol

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

OP

Yeah, meet in a public place (town centre maybe?) and you say you've been chatting a few days? I would seriously recommend you chat for months before you even consider meeting somebody from online (just my opinion however).

Thanks for that.. I just feel like i already know him alot though. I think hes soo nice, and ive spoken to his ex-gf n she said he was really nice

Reply 8

Feefifofum

16

Even if you know what someone looks like there is no guarantee that you will get on in person.
If you are intent on meeting him then, obviously, be sensible, meet somewhere public, make sure someone knows where you are etc etc.

However, if you've only been chatting for a few days then you can't possibly know each other that well. What's the harm in waiting a while until you're sure about things?

Reply 9

CassieCoo

1

do what you feel hun :smile:

Reply 10

Anonymous #1

OP

However, if you've only been chatting for a few days then you can't possibly know each other that well. What's the harm in waiting a while until you're sure about things?

Thanks for your opinion, how long do you think we should wait

Reply 11

Feefifofum

16

Well, for one thing until you feel comfortable with him. You say that your size is worrying you, and how he might react, whereas if you get to know each other better worries like that might go away.

Reply 12

Anonymous #1

OP

Well, for one thing until you feel comfortable with him. You say that your size is worrying you, and how he might react, whereas if you get to know each other better worries like that might go away.

Thank you. But i always feel self-concious about that, even around my best friend, thats just how i am and it will never change i dont think. Until im the size i want to be

Reply 13

Miss.P

13

you talked to his ex? yet you've only known him a few days, and why would he introduce you to his ex!?
What if it's just a random girl, who he's using to put in a good word for him! Hmmm sounds fishy lol or maybe I think too much.

Anyway if you wana meet him, meet in a crowded place as others have said, and don't feel anxious about how you look :smile:

Reply 14

Louher

I always feel a little uneasy about meeting people from the internet. Personally, i'm not sure I ever would. But i've had friends who've done it and with varying amounts of success. I think it's a hell of a lot easier to talk to someone via the internet and so meeting in 'real life' is obviously going to me a lot more awquard, and possibly a bit of a let down.

You say you've only been speaking for a few days, so why not just leave it a while longer and then see how you feel? But yeah don't meet him alone etc etc..or tell him your address blah blah hehe.

Reply 15

technik

13

whats the problem?

its a potential friend gained. what does your looks or his have to do with anything?

Reply 16

TrentEnd

2

use your common sense and you'll be ok I reckon. have fun!

Reply 17

CassieCoo

1

you talked to his ex? yet you've only known him a few days, and why would he introduce you to his ex!?
What if it's just a random girl, who he's using to put in a good word for him! Hmmm sounds fishy lol or maybe I think too much.

She was on his myspace list and i saw some comments from when they were togther so i mesasaged her

I think im just gonna go for it :smile:

Maybe. still need some time

Reply 18

blondie_

3

I'd wait a few more weeks if i was you as you haven't been speaking that long. When you do meet meet in a public place etc, dont tell him oyur adress the usual. good luck

Reply 19

Sithius

16

Meet He!

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