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Nope not afraid, but i used to be, i was 15 and my bf of the time proposed to me...scary scary thought....thank god i just laughed it off and blamed the drink! *shudders* totally not right!
Though my bf now, phwoarrhhh....lol! dunno, just everything is easier and more settled, not saying marriage and kids will be happening for at least 5 years but it will happen at some point in ma life...well i hopes anyways lol!
Reply 2
Nah commitment it completely worth it. I love the feeling of being a couple, and being completely comfortable in someone's company.
no, no point in being is there!
nah, oh **** i got anuva warning :frown: stupids mods :frown:
Not surprised ^ ^

No, not afraid at all, makes the relationship much more worthwhile
Where's the 'not sure' option?
How do I know if I'm afraid if I've never had the chance to be afraid, if that makes sense?
InaSpin
Not surprised ^ ^


chill out goody two shoes ..
oh no u neg repped me and didnt sign it...shame....but i KNOW it ws YOUUUUU
petrified:p:
someone i really really fancied asked me out a while ago and my mouth just went "NOOO". it was well odd. wish i'd said yeah
oh well, dunno why this happens
used to be petrified. now ive got a wonderful bf im not so scared. mariage is still not going to happen for a long time tho
Reply 11
i'm totally the opposite. i'm scared of being alone. i love being in a relationship, and knowing that my boyfriend is there for me whenever i need him. :smile: i also like knowing that when he is in trouble, or is sick, he wants me there to make everything better. ehehe. i also love knowing that i can be totally myself around him.
bleugh i could get real soppy about this, but i won't.
I dont mind short term commitment but I dont liek the thought of being attached to someone for the rest of my life from my age (17)
Knogle
I'm just curious what people around here think. Please vote accordingly. Your vote is anonymous.

Yes, this poll is directed to both single and attached folks.

As long as there is mutual trust with space for personal growth and independence, then I say live and let live. Anyone who can't accept that should be executed. :wink:
no... commitment is the best part
Reply 15
I'm 17 and I've been going out with my boyfriend for 3 years. I went out with my ex for 9 months. So I'd say no, I'm not afraid of commitment!
I am not afraid of commitment, but I am not ready to have kids for some time, and I do not believe in marriage. When I find the one I am quite prepared for lifelong monogamy and children but I wont agree to marriage.
Reply 17
Yeh i'm quite afraid of commitment but still don't know why, maybe i'm worried i'll miss out on something if i'm with someone.
im not afraid of commitment, i just dont want it at the moment, iv got a bf, but i wouldnt say its serious enough to call it a commitment
tana
Yeh i'm quite afraid of commitment but still don't know why, maybe i'm worried i'll miss out on something if i'm with someone.


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