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Over Her but still the thinking there.
Its been 5-6 months since me and my x broke up, although occasionally we talk and once in the past 2 motnhs we had a heart to heart which let us say to each other we still care and love one another that has been it.
She is a confused and manipulated/manipulater girl (dont know if she meant to do it intentionally or not).
The thing is the whole of march I decided to block and delete her from every way I could contact her and just stay out every day (which I did).This helped me in the day to forget about her but every night I would have a moment to think about her.
She was leaving for a holiday at the end of march and I decided to contact her on the last day before she went on the internet, Which I did.
We had a light talk and she ended up putting her cam on and she wanted to see me also.
After an hour or so of chat she went to sleep.
That same night she texted me asking to chat, so I called her and we had a heart to heart again. She also mentioned how when she gets back she would like to meet up wid me and my other friends to just chill out.
Then she was gone the next day for her holiday. I texted her while she was on holiday and she texted me back few days later.
Anyway she came back day before yesterday. She was on msn so I asked her how is she and how was her holiday.
She said it was ok but shes unpacking and tired so she will talk later.
Then she went offline.
Whole day I didnt see her online so I asked one of my mates if she had been.
I found out she had blocked all her guy mates online. So I called her up and said wats up. She said nothing personal, just had a **** holiday and cant be bothered to deal with any guys and she just wants to concentrate on her studies. I said ok but u could of told me straight up.
So shes just blocked me without no contact, I know shes still talking to other guys on her msn but it just got me thinking why she acting like this.
While she was on holiday I hardly thought abouut her and now shes back its like all come back.
She is a confused and manipulated/manipulater girl (dont know if she meant to do it intentionally or not).
The thing is the whole of march I decided to block and delete her from every way I could contact her and just stay out every day (which I did).This helped me in the day to forget about her but every night I would have a moment to think about her.
She was leaving for a holiday at the end of march and I decided to contact her on the last day before she went on the internet, Which I did.
We had a light talk and she ended up putting her cam on and she wanted to see me also.
After an hour or so of chat she went to sleep.
That same night she texted me asking to chat, so I called her and we had a heart to heart again. She also mentioned how when she gets back she would like to meet up wid me and my other friends to just chill out.
Then she was gone the next day for her holiday. I texted her while she was on holiday and she texted me back few days later.
Anyway she came back day before yesterday. She was on msn so I asked her how is she and how was her holiday.
She said it was ok but shes unpacking and tired so she will talk later.
Then she went offline.
Whole day I didnt see her online so I asked one of my mates if she had been.
I found out she had blocked all her guy mates online. So I called her up and said wats up. She said nothing personal, just had a **** holiday and cant be bothered to deal with any guys and she just wants to concentrate on her studies. I said ok but u could of told me straight up.
So shes just blocked me without no contact, I know shes still talking to other guys on her msn but it just got me thinking why she acting like this.
While she was on holiday I hardly thought abouut her and now shes back its like all come back.
If you keep having these heart to hearts with her you will never get over her. Dont block her on msn and if she messages u talk but be friendly and dont get in to a heart to ehart chat! Dont text/msn/email/call her as you will end up doing this but by showing you havent blocked her your still there as mate.
Go out with your mates have fun meet other girls anything to get her out of your head! Maybe she s trying to get over you and also fiinding it hard so thats why she could of blocked you. Hope this is all makes sense good luck
Go out with your mates have fun meet other girls anything to get her out of your head! Maybe she s trying to get over you and also fiinding it hard so thats why she could of blocked you. Hope this is all makes sense good luck
Indu.Mitra
Its nothing to worry about. Msn isnt very reliable.. I block people all the time.. not out of spite.. just because I need my space. U must bare in mind she only did just get back.. let her get back into the swing of things.. I'm sure there are many hearts to hearts coming. Do u wanna get back with her?
I love her still but she lied and confused me too much to get back with her.
I cant stop caring for her though.
Anonymous
I love her still but she lied and confused me too much to get back with her.
I cant stop caring for her though.
I cant stop caring for her though.
Oh and shes only blocked me on msn out of the guys as all the other guys she talks to I know some of them and they told me shes talking to them.
Indu.Mitra
just give her some space.. you should block her too. when she sees youre not contacting her and arent coming online she'll miss you. besides what do these guys have on you? u had a strong relationship with her.
U really wanna get back with someone knowing shes lied to you and can do it again. Ur gonna have to give her time to grow up.. otherwise if you get back together it'll be the same. Shes got to want to change herself too.. and u both got to make it work.
U really wanna get back with someone knowing shes lied to you and can do it again. Ur gonna have to give her time to grow up.. otherwise if you get back together it'll be the same. Shes got to want to change herself too.. and u both got to make it work.
Shes 1 confusing girl. We had a strong relationship at times and at times it was all one way. She made out she had problems but god knows if they were genuine or not. I have this side of me just to know what she really is like and if she is full of **** or genuine. We was together a long time but it was long distance so its not like I was with her everyday to know her inside out but we spoke everyday on the phone. Its crazy but I just want to know why da hell shes blocking me when shes not blocking no 1 else.
LibertineNorth
Any man who uses the phrase 'heart to heart' more than twice in one lifetime, never mind twice in the same post, deserves messed around...
LoL yeah you probably got it right (too soft). I try to toughen up but its kinda hard as ive always been an only child and through growing up my mum was kind of like my best friend. So here ways have kind of made me who I am today.
Put it like this, I have though like 'shes a B**** and why should I make efforts wid her after all the **** shes put me through and all the lies, but they just remain as thoughts and can easily be erased when things seem better.
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