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what do i do next?

hey guys
ok i really really like this guy in my year and hes in one of my classes. we chat occassionally and stuff - we r not v close or nething.
right so our class had to go into skool today for an exam and i chatted to him for a bit and then he left straight after. as i was leavin in my car, i saw him @ the bus stop and so offered him a lift home - so i took him home. we were chattin quite a bit and it was nice. so i duno wat i shud do next. i have no idea if he likes me or not and im not the most confident of gals so i need a bit of a "softly softly" approach. Im not so confident with the whole "just ask him out" thing. any ideas? cheer xxx

Reply 1

ask him for his number. using the approach that you're bored and wanna do something, thus need his number. take it from there.

Reply 2

hmm possibly got plan - tho i only see him in class so its a bit difficult wen uv got god awful teachers breathing down ur necks

Reply 3

i meant to say good plan

Reply 4

thing is you can't be that shy/unconfident as you stopped n' gave him a lift.

but yeh, wait until you next bump into him.

Reply 5

hmmm i guess that was v brave of me

Reply 6

Try and talk to him a bit more, before class or something. Or if you're in class ask for his opinion on whatever you're studying - gives you an excuse to talk and get to know him.

Then ask him out for a drink or something once you feel confident enough.

Reply 7

just try and talk to him when ever you see him, ask him for advise on questions in class or something. then when you know him a bit better, casualy drop in that you wouldnt mind his number. thats what i do lol

Reply 8

talk to him casually as much as possible. send out subtle hints...

good luck!:smile: