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Cheating..

I've been going out with this guy Matt for three weeks now but like his mate, Eric, and i told Eric that I really like him. He said to me that he liked me before too, but he cant tell me whether he likes me now or not cos Eric and Matt are good friends. He seemed happy bout it though, and said he's not sure what to do now and wish i told him earlier cos Matt is his mate. I dont want to dump Matt because I want to cheat on him, so how can i convince Eric to be with me while I'm still with Matt?

Please dont tell me to dump Matt first, just help me on how i can convince Eric. Thanks.

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Reply 1
You don't want to dump him because you want to cheat on him? Niiiiiiiiice.
Reply 2
Why do u want to cheat on someone? I bet ur a really nice person
Reply 3
Anonymous
I've been going out with this guy Matt for three weeks now but like his mate, Eric, and i told Eric that I really like him. He said to me that he liked me before too, but he cant tell me whether he likes me now or not cos Eric and Matt are good friends. He seemed happy bout it though, and said he's not sure what to do now and wish i told him earlier cos Matt is his mate. I dont want to dump Matt because I want to cheat on him, so how can i convince Eric to be with me while I'm still with Matt?

Please dont tell me to dump Matt first, just help me on how i can convince Eric. Thanks.

Why do you want to cheat on matt???
Reply 4
Cos he seems like he doesnt give a **** about me and treats me like crap. THATS WHY!
Reply 5
Anonymous
Cos he seems like he doesnt give a **** about me and treats me like crap. THATS WHY!

And using Eric your bfs mate for a shag will suddenly make all this better you feel????
How very wrong you are, ever thought of talking to your boyfriend about how you feel first before you open your legs
You need a big slap around the face. How can you want to cheat on someone? I hope someone cheats on you so you can find out how much it hurts.

If he "treats you like crap", why do you not want to end it?!
Reply 7
Oh and thinking of cheating gives me a thrill, its going to be my first time :biggrin: Not cheating by having sex thought, i dont do that. Only kissing and all that.
Reply 8
same reaaction as others, you want to cheat :confused:, female of the species is indeed more deadly then the male (that is not to say it doesn't happen the other way round, but not heard someone wanting to cheat). Don't reveal your true self to Eric in that case.
Reply 9
Well just break up with him then, not alot of hope if he's alreay an arse after 3 weeks. However, if you are determined to cheat on him why not do it with someone he doesn't know...that way you'll only mess things up for you, not you, him and his friend
Reply 10
Btw someone HAS cheated on me before, and all guys do it play around! I'm not going to take them seriously either, I'll just do what they do. What goes around comes around hun.
Reply 11
Anonymous
Oh and thinking of cheating gives me a thrill, its going to be my first time :biggrin: Not cheating by having sex thought, i dont do that. Only kissing and all that.

Your a sad lonley girl
Reply 12
I do have a suggestion to the OP: grow up.
Reply 13
Anonymous
Btw someone HAS cheated on me before, and all guys do it play around! I'm not going to take them seriously either, I'll just do what they do. What goes around comes around hun.

Not all guys so you want to become a slut do you??? and wreck friendships and relationships???? your pathetic woman, no good will come of this
slag and a whore. nothing more, nothing less.
I'm gona try close this thread.

OP - Get a life!
Reply 16
If he treats you like crap, he probably won't even give a **** that you just kissed someone else.
Reply 17
Anonymous
Oh and thinking of cheating gives me a thrill, its going to be my first time :biggrin: Not cheating by having sex thought, i dont do that. Only kissing and all that.


u r a disgrace to women. i really cant contemplate your motives...if he treats u like s*** then just leave dont lower urself to his level!! *LOU*
Reply 18
Oh dear. Karma. All coming back to you when you have a husband and kids and find out he's been cheating for the fun of it. Please, spit the dummy out woman!:p: You can't do that. Ever thought of having a mature conversation with your bf about why it's not working etc..?
Reply 19
You can't call me a slag or a whore, Ive never slept with a guy or done anything sexual with them apart from kissing and the simple stuff. i just want to cheat on this guy with his mate and get revenge in some sort of way, and it'll be some sort of a thrill. How can i convince Eric??????