Advice please

There is a girl who i like.I told her friend that i m interested in this girl and told her friend to hint to this girl about it.apparently this girl said she rly likes me.but the thing is she went out on one date with some other guy couple of days ago and they snogged.so basically she texted me saying i d rly love to go with u for a date, but i cant, cuz it would be bad for the other guy.do u reckon i should bugger off?her friend told me i need to keep trying, because the girl doesnt want a bad reputation, seeing two guys and therefore she would hav to get rid of the other guy.this girl also said that if a was a week earlier than she would go out with me.should i just bugger off?
tnx

Reply 1

Navajo

14

No don't "bugger off" keep trying...

Reply 2

silverbolt

19

yes and make sure you keep playing to her ego
two guys on the go
she loving it

Reply 3

newbie17

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Cadre_Of_Storms

yes and make sure you keep playing to her ego
two guys on the go
she loving it

what?you think i should resume with texting her?she went out with this guy yesterday i think.so should i say how was ur date? lol.

Reply 4

puppy

People go on dates all the time, doesn't mean they're then off limits. She obviously didn't like the guy she went on the date with if she's now looking for a date with you. Just text her and invite her out somewhere- don't ask her how her date was, that'd just be weird.

Reply 5

ChocolatePie

You should let her pick between you too! She can't keep saying she likes you both without picking one another....that is just not fair!

Reply 6

andy_c

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ChocolatePie

You should let her pick between you too! She can't keep saying she likes you both without picking one another....that is just not fair!

Reply 7

newbie17

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ChocolatePie

You should let her pick between you too! She can't keep saying she likes you both without picking one another....that is just not fair!

i know.she texted me though, saying she d love to go on a date with me but she cant, because it would be bad on another guy. do you reckon she basically wants me to bugger off. i dont get her.she says she likes me a lot to her friend. crap.if she uses me as a back up line i ll get very pised off.

Reply 8

newbie17

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puppy

People go on dates all the time, doesn't mean they're then off limits. She obviously didn't like the guy she went on the date with if she's now looking for a date with you. Just text her and invite her out somewhere- don't ask her how her date was, that'd just be weird.

well i already did before, she cant come, because it would look like she is cheating on the other guy.

Reply 9

MrImperfect

Jees oh,even if she had a boyfriend of two years she wouldnt be off limits.Keep on trying!.

Reply 10

newbie17

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MrImperfect

Jees oh,even if she had a boyfriend of two years she wouldnt be off limits.Keep on trying!.

how?i dont see her that often.it can only be done through texting.i invited her before, she declined.what should i try now?

Reply 11

MrImperfect

newbie17

how?i dont see her that often.it can only be done through texting.i invited her before, she declined.what should i try now?

Ahhhhh,she declined?.This whole other guy thing might just be a way of letting you down gently.Invite her out again in a couple of days and if she puts you off again then forget it.

Reply 12

newbie17

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MrImperfect

Ahhhhh,she declined?.This whole other guy thing might just be a way of letting you down gently.Invite her out again in a couple of days and if she puts you off again then forget it.

alrite.lol.

Reply 13

puppy

newbie17

well i already did before, she cant come, because it would look like she is cheating on the other guy.

I don't understand though- if you go on a date with someone you're not going out with them.

Is she actually in a relationship with that guy? If not then how can it be cheating? I went on 3 dates this week- I'm not cheating on anybody.

Reply 14

newbie17

OP

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well then she isnt interested or being a bitch and is playing hard.
i ll just forget about it.

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