Hi
I don't know if anyone's in a similar situation so I thought I'll post this here. Basically, I started uni this year and at first I really liked it, I still like my course but I'm feeling pretty lonely here. I don't feel like I've made many close friends
I kind of get on with my housemates but sometimes I wish they were different. There were few nights when they went out when I had something else on and then woke me up when they got back home drunk :/
I tried to hint that they should keep it down a little but I don't think they got the message. Some time ago we kind of decided to live together next year. There would be two other girls and two guys. At first I thought I get on with one of the girls really well but then I think she got 'bored' of me cause I didn't want to get drunk with her every night and flirt with random guys constantly...so now she realised the other girl is a bit like that when drunk and they seem to be best friends whilst I feel isolated
I'm really worried about next year cause I don't want to live in a house if they'll carry on making me feel that way. I just don't get why they can't have a normal conversation. They always talk about whether they got a reply from one of the guys they made out with :/ so sometimes I feel like I'm stuck with the other two guys cause the girls have their own things to talk about
but on the other hand, I don't think I'm particularly close to any other people that I've met here, at least not close enough for them to offer me a place in their house next year
I really want a house with people that will have some respect and won't wake me up when drunk :/ and people that I can talk to...but I don't think I will find another option before we'll have sign a contract for a house
If anyone's been through a similar situation to this, do you reckon I still have a chance of meeting some people who will want to live with me? Or shall I just hope that next year my housemates will have more work to do and won't be so loud?...and that I will somehow find topics of conversation with the other girls?