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How do I find my G-spot?
I can't seem to come from just intercourse alone, only when my boyfriend touches me at the same time or on its own. Does the G-spot actually exist and how can I find it? is it because I'm not aroused enough?
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Yes, it exists. There's plenty of information online.
When you're quite aroused, lie down on the bed (maybe with your bum on a pillow) and get your boyfriend to push two fingers inside (the fingers should be facing upwards). Then he should do a "come here" movement with them (ie. lift the end of the fingers upwards). He should be able to feel a slightly different textured area (which is your G spot). It might make you feel like you need to pee, but you don't really - but maybe go beforehand anyway!
Anyway, that's your gspot.
Also, it's very normal apparently for women not to be able to orgasm without clitoral stimulation so I wouldn't worry about that.
When you're quite aroused, lie down on the bed (maybe with your bum on a pillow) and get your boyfriend to push two fingers inside (the fingers should be facing upwards). Then he should do a "come here" movement with them (ie. lift the end of the fingers upwards). He should be able to feel a slightly different textured area (which is your G spot). It might make you feel like you need to pee, but you don't really - but maybe go beforehand anyway!
Anyway, that's your gspot.
Also, it's very normal apparently for women not to be able to orgasm without clitoral stimulation so I wouldn't worry about that.
Anonymous
Yes, it exists. There's plenty of information online.
When you're quite aroused, lie down on the bed (maybe with your bum on a pillow) and get your boyfriend to push two fingers inside (the fingers should be facing upwards). Then he should do a "come here" movement with them (ie. lift the end of the fingers upwards). He should be able to feel a slightly different textured area (which is your G spot). It might make you feel like you need to pee, but you don't really - but maybe go beforehand anyway!
Anyway, that's your gspot.
Also, it's very normal apparently for women not to be able to orgasm without clitoral stimulation so I wouldn't worry about that.
When you're quite aroused, lie down on the bed (maybe with your bum on a pillow) and get your boyfriend to push two fingers inside (the fingers should be facing upwards). Then he should do a "come here" movement with them (ie. lift the end of the fingers upwards). He should be able to feel a slightly different textured area (which is your G spot). It might make you feel like you need to pee, but you don't really - but maybe go beforehand anyway!
Anyway, that's your gspot.
Also, it's very normal apparently for women not to be able to orgasm without clitoral stimulation so I wouldn't worry about that.
i think u mean 'cum' here...
and yeah iv never cum in sex. i read it in a sex education book that women need clitorial stimulation in order to orgasm, cos i only ever come when i have oral sex. just need the boyfriend to get on with it now..
"The G-spot may not be just one discrete spot. ... It is merely the deep nerves of the clitoris as they pass through the tissue to connect with the spinal column. The clitoris has deep roots and may in fact change in size and slightly change in location as hormone levels fluctuate throughout a woman's life." - from Wikipedia
Besides, how many people know that the Clitoris is a /\ shape with the bit you *see* being the apex. The rest goes deep beneath your inner lips. I love Gray's Anatomy
Besides, how many people know that the Clitoris is a /\ shape with the bit you *see* being the apex. The rest goes deep beneath your inner lips. I love Gray's Anatomy
I guess that suggesting using Google Earth/Local to find it would be an inappropriate comment, eh?
ok.. I do know I need stimmulation of clitoris in order to come... but how SHALL I TELL IT TO MY BOYFRIEND? he's experienced enough but maybe only slept with girls before that didn't need stimulations of this kind.. help please 
I'm actually really scared to tell him.. maybe I'll just hope that he'll find it out on his own one day.. (but after 3months without orgasm I HOPE HE'LL REALISE IT PRETTY SOON...)
you've been faking? well guys can be thick like that,and self centered when it comes to sex.so you better tell him,just go 'oh could you touch me here' and place his hand there or say clit. it won't shock him,he'll think 'wow,she knows what she wants.i like that!' you know how they think pfff
Anonymous
ok.. I do know I need stimmulation of clitoris in order to come... but how SHALL I TELL IT TO MY BOYFRIEND? he's experienced enough but maybe only slept with girls before that didn't need stimulations of this kind.. help please
Or maybe he's just crap in bed.
Tell him. It's like saying 'how do I tell the bus driver where I want to go on the bus?'
no I can not fake..that's too weird.. he acually knows that I didn't have orgasm (I still enjoy sex a lot though) and he thinks it's becuase I'm too stiff in my head 
like it's my thoughts that keep me from reaching orgasm which I believed at first (because I was a virgin when we first slept together) but then after 3 months or regular action... I don't believe it's true anymore..
like it's my thoughts that keep me from reaching orgasm which I believed at first (because I was a virgin when we first slept together) but then after 3 months or regular action... I don't believe it's true anymore..Sam_Beckett
or maybe he's not used to sleep with unexperienced girls
(which actually really might be true)Shylock
most women can not orgasm from just vaginal penetration/stimulation alone,most often it's a combination of clitoral stimulation and vaginal stimulation or just clitoral stimulation.
i can from just penetration... but only with my current boyfriend... am i lucky or is he quite talented? lol i never realised most women couldn't
Shylock
well you've gotta tell him love...plus he might not be really expeirenced like he says....
well he's quite a bit older.. so he is experienced.. that's why I'm scared to tell him..to show him that he actually doesn't know how to do it properly.. (It might be really embarrassing for him you know?)
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