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abused in lecture

so I was sitting in a lecture this morning, and was sitting next to a guy I haven't sat next to before... al the usual stuff was going on, lecture was boring... and then i suddenly felt his hand rubbing my leg and eventually moved onto my balls and penis... this lasted for about 5 minutes before he eventually moved his hand off to take some notes... i was too scared theroughout to tell him to get off... ill probably see him again on wednesday and i dunno what to do

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Bite his ear off.
Reply 2
You freak! Why didn't you just tell him to get off? Or did you like it
LMAO, you clearly liked it man, if that was me i would of knocked him upside the head.
Melchett
You freak! Why didn't you just tell him to get off? Or did you like it

:toofunny:

I’m sorry, that was insensitive.
Next time just don’t sit next to him. Are you sure it was 5 minutes, not 5 seconds?
Reply 5
I can't believe you let him do it for 5 minutes! Is this a joke?
Are you for real?

Jeez... just tell him to stop if you don't want him to! It's not like you'd be asking a massive favour or anything!!

Just be like 'Um, sorry mate, I don't go in for that type of thing' should be enough.

If not then shout out loudly: 'OH MY GOD!! STOP TOUCHING MY COCK YOU PERVERT!!!!'

It would liven up the lecture:biggrin:
Reply 7
maybe not 5 minutes.. i dunno how long it seemed like an age.... i didnt like it but was too scared to say anythng
Reply 8
Anonymous
so I was sitting in a lecture this morning, and was sitting next to a guy I haven't sat next to before... al the usual stuff was going on, lecture was boring... and then i suddenly felt his hand rubbing my leg and eventually moved onto my balls and penis... this lasted for about 5 minutes before he eventually moved his hand off to take some notes... i was too scared theroughout to tell him to get off... ill probably see him again on wednesday and i dunno what to do



So you were happy to let him start rubbing your leg.... then your balls..... and then your penis.

you werent abused. you let him.
Reply 9
If it happens again, say no. If it doesn't make a difference, tell the police.
Anonymous
maybe not 5 minutes.. i dunno how long it seemed like an age.... i didnt like it but was too scared to say anythng

Did you pitch your trouser tent?
Reply 11
This is a pisser.
how can you be scared to say some thing, is he some massive guy.
It shouldn't make much difference, but it might explain his motivations somewhat, but are you openly gay?
Reply 14
Are you gay?
Unless you were enjoying it why the hell didnt you shove him off you!? i dont mean to be insensitive but surely if someone was sat next to you with his hand in inappropiate places of the guy next to him and you made some kind of protest he wld have stopped because of everyone else sat around you! didnt anyone else NOTICE there was sexual acts happening!!
Reply 16
This is done all the time in my school, it's quite an intimate school but no where near that level.
I suggest sit somewhere else but make sure he's not some guy who's really really confident about his orientation and is just fooling around, trying to freak you out.
Next time, play along and watch his reaction... If he enjoys then seriously abort the plan and sit somewhere else.
Please don't play along again and then go and call it 'abuse'. I really don't think you should play along at all in fact. There's no point giving him even more of the wrong idea than you already have.
Reply 18
I got off with another guy in a club on friday.. come to think of it i think i saw him there
You liar! I was the chap sat next to you and you more than happy to return the favour.

Same time next week?