what to do... what to do?

so, i like this guy... i've only liked him for about 2 weeks, and we had spring holiday last week, so really... not long! anyhow, i know where he studies during his free period, so i went over there (i have the same free period). I sat next to him, and we spent the whole time talking about everything... I thought we really hit it off. He asked me all these questions about myself... what music i liked, holidays, family... we even talked about religion and stuff... quite the first real conversation :p:

anyhow, afterwards, I asked him to my form's formal dance (at the end of the year)... he said yes (he's a year lower)! However... he didn't ask me to his form's dance, although i disappeared pretty much right after he said yes (i had to rush to class!) So... what should my next move be? Lay low? Find him again? hmm.

Reply 1

Ron Stoppable

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You're a member of TSR Flirts Soc! So talk to the guy in your way. Secure that second date. :smile:

Reply 2

Shihan

I recomened next free period that you go talk to him again, especially if hes on his own, even if your mates are there too (he'll get the hint if hes not stupid). Most guys will realise the fact that you like them pretty quick especially if you would rather sit with them than anybody else (ie. ur mates) hell then be hooked on you. Altho another way to tell is to get to the room first before him and sit down on your own and see if he comes and sits with you. you'll be quids in either way. oh yeah and btw he sounds like an alright bloke.

Reply 3

ladygrey

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Shihan

I recomened next free period that you go talk to him again, especially if hes on his own, even if your mates are there too (he'll get the hint if hes not stupid). Most guys will realise the fact that you like them pretty quick especially if you would rather sit with them than anybody else (ie. ur mates) hell then be hooked on you. Altho another way to tell is to get to the room first before him and sit down on your own and see if he comes and sits with you. you'll be quids in either way. oh yeah and btw he sounds like an alright bloke.

yeah... i quite like him :redface:

so... we have this free period every day. Should I go tomorrow, or maybe wait til wednesday?

Reply 4

Shihan

ladygrey

yeah... i quite like him :redface:

so... we have this free period every day. Should I go tomorrow, or maybe wait til wednesday?

Go both days if i were you. double the chance to talk.

i would (if i was female) get in there before him and sit on your own and see if he joins you. if he dosnt it may be due to the fact that he thinks your busy working so then go over to him. win win situation in my opinion. And its souinds as if he likes you to, i mean he did say yes to your offer of a date. :biggrin:

Reply 5

ladygrey

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Shihan

i would (if i was female) get in there before him and sit on your own and see if he joins you. if he dosnt it may be due to the fact that he thinks your busy working so then go over to him. win win situation in my opinion. And its souinds as if he likes you to, i mean he did say yes to your offer of a date. :biggrin:

yeah... i just don't want to look desperate, y'know? i mean i don't like "hard to get"... but in this situation... would a day of it be good... or just confusing?

Reply 6

Shihan

ladygrey

yeah... i just don't want to look desperate, y'know? i mean i don't like "hard to get"... but in this situation... would a day of it be good... or just confusing?

do you go in there everyday anyway? if you do he would be a little confused not to see you but if you dont then maybe turn up late and give him the impression that u came to see hm especially and then leave again. To me though if you were in there both days talking to me i would find it nice and not desperate. Now jumping on his lap, straddling him and ripping off his top and then ramming your tounge down his throat, that is desperate. (NB. Dont do that!) Sit opposite him on the table so you can talk to his face easily. Men like eye contact quite a lot.

Reply 7

ladygrey

OP

Shihan

do you go in there everyday anyway? if you do he would be a little confused not to see you but if you dont then maybe turn up late and give him the impression that u came to see hm especially and then leave again. To me though if you were in there both days talking to me i would find it nice and not desperate. Now jumping on his lap, straddling him and ripping off his top and then ramming your tounge down his throat, that is desperate. (NB. Dont do that!) Sit opposite him on the table so you can talk to his face easily. Men like eye contact quite a lot.

see, that's the thing. i never go in there... i just went today because i wanted to ask him to the formal (and of course i just wanted to talk to him!). so i feel like... if i show up tomorrow, too... y'know? but at the same time...meh

what to do... what to do?

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