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right.... heres the story...

me and my girlfriend have been goin out for a long time now maybe 5 months cant remember exact time. we have a good sexual relationship and are comfortable with each other.

However, she keeps saying she wants to 'rim' me. im not too sure what rimming is but i have an idea but im not sure if what i think it is is the same as her (i think its where she wants to lick my arsehole.. sorry to be so graphic) and arent too sure how to take it. i dont know whether i should be put off or if its a normal thing for a couple to do...

any pointers?

thanks

Reply 1

Talya

16

Remember, you have to kiss that mouth!

Reply 2

sahsum

13

Yes I think you're right (arse-licking) Are you normally open to sexual experimentation? if so GO FOR IT

Reply 3

SamTheMan

17

Anonymous

right.... heres the story...

me and my girlfriend have been goin out for a long time now maybe 5 months cant remember exact time. we have a good sexual relationship and are comfortable with each other.

However, she keeps saying she wants to 'rim' me. im not too sure what rimming is but i have an idea but im not sure if what i think it is is the same as her (i think its where she wants to lick my arsehole.. sorry to be so graphic) and arent too sure how to take it. i dont know whether i should be put off or if its a normal thing for a couple to do...

any pointers?

thanks

This is about as genuine as a 10 pound Rolex.

Your girlfriend who you've been with for several months mentions a word like "rimming" and instead of talking to her about it, you acted all embarassed and confused and went on an internet forum to find out what it meant.... yeah right :rolleyes:

Reply 4

Fenella

SamTheMan

This is about as genuine as a 10 pound Rolex.

Your girlfriend who you've been with for several months mentions a word like "rimming" and instead of talking to her about it, you acted all embarassed and confused and went on an internet forum to find out what it meant.... yeah right :rolleyes:

True - and if you were too embarrassed to ask her, whatever happened to google?

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

OP

no i think you misunderstood what i meant is that i dont know what she mens by rimming, like whether i think the same thing as her and it would be an awkward misunderstanding that id rather sort out before it happens as she can be quite volatile and might get offended that i thought she meant such a thing...

Reply 6

insparato

15

Okay well you guessed right she wants to lick your arsehole.

Reply 7

mtbab

17

well ask her what do you mean, and if she heads for your arse and you dont want it, say stop i need the toilet come out 5min later she wont be interested then. lol

Reply 8

sahsum

13

I think he's genuine!! If my BF mentioned something like this I'd try and avoid talking about it with him!

Reply 9

username47781

20

RIMMING (RIM JOB)
kissing ass, literally, aka "ass-blowing," "tossing salad" or "E-coli pie"(a great term for oral-anal from supervert.com).

Reply 10

Lauren Hart

3

its up to you really, asking what we think isnt helping you know what you think. In theory, its no worse than you eating her out (in the normal way). So long as your clean, which can be done with an anal douche which are cheap enough, you'll probably enjoy it, you have a hell of a lot of nerves back there! She may just want to explore her bi sexual side without adding a woman into the relationship, its the easiest way possible.

Reply 11

pumpkin7

13

=S i love my boyfriend to pieces, but i would never do that to him.. not that he would want it.. which is good.. lol

Reply 12

rockthecasbah

2

OMG I think I would run a mile if someone suggested it to me. Eugh. Ack. Gross. Awful. Sick.

Reply 13

Happy1

14

Ergh she must be pretty adventurous... i mean, she has to live with that mouth. :s may i suggest you take a damn good shower before trying that...

Reply 14

Toy Soldier

3

Heh, this reminds me of a girl I once knew who told me about a guy who'd asked her during sex if he could rim her, and she had laughed at him and had to leave because she couldn't take him seriously anymore. Then she came to school the next day, told me, and I've mocked him about it every time I;ve seen him since that day. That was 4 years ago. Heh.

Anywhom, my point is that as a kinky quirk, someone might REQUEST that it be done to THEM, and the other partner might be convinced to do it in exchange for some other favour (or hard cash) - but actually wanting to lick arse seems a bit... err... strange.

Reply 15

Anonymous #1

OP

Suzi_law

Ergh she must be pretty adventurous... i mean, she has to live with that mouth. :s may i suggest you take a damn good shower before trying that...

my arse is clean thank you :mad:

Reply 16

lasttoiletroll

if you're comfortable enough with her you should be able to tell her if you're not into it. but if you're gona let her do it then get clean first

Reply 17

Kernel

1

Hey, 'The Ballad of Chasey Lain' just came up on my ipod- it mentions ass-eating, and I thought of this thread, and the delicious irony.

Reply 18

Angelicx1x

1

Well.. its totally your decision, but i think you should speak to your girlfriend soon because otherwise she might just head down there anyway, n that could be awkward! it shows that she is sexually adventurous, but i think that if you let her, be sure that she doesnt feel forced at all, and that she wont regret it after. the trust between you two has got to be really strong!
Also, it could lead to bigger n scarier things, so be cautious as to what your letting yourself in for. Who knows, when shes down there she might stick a finger up there aswel. Are you ready for that if it hasnt already happened?
Oh and if you lot do 'do' it, let us know what its like! lol

Reply 19

Coolpartyboy

1

Well I am a gay guy and 'rimming' is rarely done by gay people, let alone a straight girl. She must be really kinky person. I have had it done to me, it can be really nice; a guys 'g-spot' is in his arse so have some fun with it if your up for it. HAHA I love the student room, where else can you discuss university, politics, law and rimming? :tsr2:

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