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ladygrey

if a guy asks a lot of questions about you, does it mean he likes you? read this in cosmo and was curious.

Reply 1

contractador

1

Obviously its a gd sign he culd b interested in u. The fact hes asking questions means the potential's there. Theres no guarantee tho. Some peeps prefer to talk bout other peeps. I ask questions all the time bt its still only to mates.

(Unless its like excessive questioning id look out to see if theres ne other signs)

Reply 2

Toy Soldier

3

It might, I suppose. On the other hand, a guy not asking many questions doesn't automatically mean he isn't interested. For example I try not to ask too many questions when I've only just met someone, simply because I don't like other people asking ME many questions - I like to keep a lot private.

Reply 3

q1w2e3r4t5y

What kind of questions does he ask?

Reply 4

Ron Stoppable

14

Guys - you're missing the point.

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ladygrey - Think about it like this. With the opposite... men trying to tell if women are interested, I'm sure you've seen articles that say things like:
"If she tilts her head to one side and strokes her neck, that's a sign of interest..."
"If she licks her lips in a longing fashion, that means she's interested in you..."
"If she laughs a lot, makes positive eye contact, and touches you often, then she likes you..."
Duh! Who cares?

The real problem is that none of the articles we read, Cosmo or otherwise, say a single thing about how to make men/women give you these signals. So learn how to actually create attraction so you get these signals in the first place. So ladygrey, read very carefully... I'm going to give you a stupid-proof formula - yes, even the H&R's idiotic multiple-anonymous poster can't fail - for knowing whether or not a man, or indeed a woman, is interested in you.

Here it is: You engage him. - He engages you back.
Yes, that's it. Please stop the applause long enough that I can finish. You can clap later. I know that this sounds a little "Duh-ish" - just use it.

So:
1) Stop looking around for signals from men that they're "interested" in you.
2) Stop caring whether or not a particular man is interested in you.
3) Instead, start triggering the interest, and watching to see if men engage. If they do, then assume that it's on! Listen to Mr Incredible...

Showtime!

Reply 5

q1w2e3r4t5y

1) You engage him.
2) He engages you back.

Reply 6

Ron Stoppable

14

^ Easy on the gratitude, dear girl. :wink:

Reply 7

ladygrey

OP

Ron Stoppable

Guys - you're missing the point.

-

ladygrey - Think about it like this. With the opposite... men trying to tell if women are interested, I'm sure you've seen articles that say things like:
"If she tilts her head to one side and strokes her neck, that's a sign of interest..."
"If she licks her lips in a longing fashion, that means she's interested in you..."
"If she laughs a lot, makes positive eye contact, and touches you often, then she likes you..."
Duh! Who cares?

The real problem is that none of the articles we read, Cosmo or otherwise, say a single thing about how to make men/women give you these signals. So learn how to actually create attraction so you get these signals in the first place. So ladygrey, read very carefully... I'm going to give you a stupid-proof formula - yes, even the H&R's idiotic multiple-anonymous poster can't fail - for knowing whether or not a man, or indeed a woman, is interested in you.

Here it is: You engage him. - He engages you back.
Yes, that's it. Please stop the applause long enough that I can finish. You can clap later. I know that this sounds a little "Duh-ish" - just use it.

So:
1) Stop looking around for signals from men that they're "interested" in you.
2) Stop caring whether or not a particular man is interested in you.
3) Instead, start triggering the interest, and watching to see if men engage. If they do, then assume that it's on! Listen to Mr Incredible...

Showtime!

thanks. well... I mean, we sat and talked, he seemed interested, asked me all these questions about myself... and when I asked him to our form's leaving formal dance (he's a year younger) he said yes. but that could just mean as friends, obviously.... hmm...

Reply 8

q1w2e3r4t5y

Well I think you're the best person to decide how he feels about you since we can't really tell from what you're saying and what you say will be influenced and we won't get an accurate picture.

See how things go at the dance and you might get a better indication. Good luck :smile:

Reply 9

ladygrey

OP

pianist

Well I think you're the best person to decide how he feels about you since we can't really tell from what you're saying and what you say will be influenced and we won't get an accurate picture.

See how things go at the dance and you might get a better indication. Good luck :smile:

the dance is in june (you have to ask people rather early though)

Reply 10

In Love

Some guys are just curious, doesnt mean they do like you... and on the other harnd, if a guy doesnt ask, doesnt mean they dont like you, so I think its hard to tell

Reply 11

El Scotto

15

ladygrey

if a guy asks a lot of questions about you, does it mean he likes you? read this in cosmo and was curious.

Girls magazines are always the most amusing pieces of crap i've ever read...

I'm more than happy to have a browse when hanging around for a girl to get ready.

Reply 12

pendragon

13

Ron Stoppable

So learn how to actually create attraction so you get these signals in the first place

Are you a salesperson for books like the 'scorers guide' by any chance? :biggrin:

Reply 13

Ron Stoppable

14

^

Haven't heard of that. Besides "scoring" is a rubbish way to look at it.

The point is simple though - some people learn it quicker because they get more attention and thus more interactions in their adolesence, and the others either don't get the attention or choose to avoid it...

Everyone learns from (some sort of related) experience; noone's a natural.

Reply 14

Ron Stoppable

14

^^ And that learning can apply to every area of your life. Think about it.

Reply 15

username47781

20

Getting to know them better is one way of finding out if they like you

Reply 16

Ron Stoppable

14

I'd do it in 3-20 minutes, depending how soon I wanted to move on. Wasting time going out to typical venues with women is just not on for me.

ladygrey - do you know how many days we are alive for? If you did, you wouldn't care about what guys you fancy think, you'd just go for it and be all outgoing and slightly higher energy than them. Answer the question.

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