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everyone is madd at me

I m going through hard time, and dont wanna spend time with nobody, i wanna be left alone, and dont wanna talk to nobody...
the thing is, i m losing all of my friends because of that, they dont wanna understand, they think i dont love them anymore, and that i m trying to "disapear" from their lives...and it gets me sad, cuz it aint even like that, i m just not in a mood for nobody.....(i m not depressed, i m just little stressed out) my best friends mother loves me so much, the other day i went to their house and when she saw me she started crying and told me "i thought you disapeared from my life, and i love you too much, i dont wanna lose you" it made me feel so bad, cuz i do love her a lot ( we have a real good and close relationship)and i dont want her to think like that.

how do i explain to my friends and everyone that it aint gonna be like this forever, that everything s gonna go back to normal? obviously, the way i say it, dont seem to work...

(i m sorry if this thread is too long)

Reply 1

El Scotto

just tell them what you've written here. Either in a letter or face to face.

Reply 2

spacedonkey

I think you just need to explain it exactly as you have done here, and they will understand. Most people go through periods like that, when life gets on top of them and they need a bit of space. Reassure your friends/family that you still love them but just need that space until you feel better again. If they are still upset then there is little you can do about it, but the chances are they will understand.

Reply 3

Ferrus

Try, as hard as it may seem to rationalise things. If you act impetuously now, you may only make things worse.

Reply 4

c0co

I had a phase like that when I was about 15...I just stopped wanting to be sociable and needed time alone. Just explain your mates that your not depressed or sick, but you just need some time to collect your thoughts and you still love em. If they're real freinds, they'll understand