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Crisis! anyone ever been in the same suituation??

I am still 16, i have seriously deep feelings for i guy.....think is, hes 26, ten years my senior.
We flirt, i get the impression he likes me too,
i need real help, is the age differnce too much at my age, or should i go for it?? :eek:

thanks

no. way to much

Is he your teacher?

well your the legal limit, and aslong as hes nice and treats you well, what does it matter, im 17 and my bf is 24. thats 7years, but when in with him, it really doesnt matter to me, or when im not with him

Reply 4

Zoecb

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Go for it if you want to.

Reply 5

high priestess fnord

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the age gap isnt too big but if it doesnt feel right then dont do it

Reply 6

sarax

I don't mean to sound rude, but why would a 26 year old be interested in a 16 yr old? i'm sure you're lovely but most 26 yr olds are too busy chasing girls their own age to even notice (let alone get to know) a 16 year old. Like what's wrong with him that he either can't or doesn't want to date girls his own age. I mean I'm not saying you aren't a great girl but girls his age are more likely to be into the things he's into, to be able to enjoy the same leisure time etc. i really don't think it would even work logistically, I mean your friends might think he's cool but his friends, and you wouldn't be able to go out as often as him, and presumably you have school. It's just nota good idea, in my op.

sara

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SHAG he ;]]]]

It entirely depends on how fit he is.

Oh, and one other thing - only do it if you 100% sure that you aren't going to look back and feel bitter, thinking that he took advantage of you because you were so young. And remember, when you're like 30 he could be all old and wrinkly and... impotent :eek:

Reply 9

loser88

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Yes I am in the same situation- I am 18 and like a 27 year old, he's Italian and gorgeous but engaged (she's an ugly thing) .... :frown:

c'est la vie.... :frown:

Reply 10

freshestkid

1

Also think about WHY would a 26 year old wanna be with a 16 year old. The phrase 'playing tennis with a toddler' springs to mind...

Reply 11

supernova2

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hell be 40 when shes 30....

Reply 12

Vampyrcorn

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supernova2

hell be 40 when shes 30....

Oops.

I didn't read the 1st post properly. I thought she said he was 26 years her senior, which would have made him 42 at the moment. Whoops.

Reply 13

loser88

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supernova2

hell be 40 when shes 30....

So?

Reply 14

dh00001

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freshestkid

The phrase 'playing tennis with a toddler' springs to mind...

awsome phrase, sorry im having that one :p:

Reply 15

Anonymous #1

dont h8 me fort posting anon.

but...isit just me or noone else finds these 16 &20+ relationships a bit weird?
i cant understand how a 25 year old likes a VERY VERY young girl.....

no i do too

I already said I was a touch confused as to his motives in my longer post earlier. It may just be that they've clicked, but I find it slightly wierd...

Reply 18

MagicNMedicine

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I'm a 26 year old male. I wouldn't be interested in a relationship with a 16 year old girl.

There's nothing illegal or immoral about a sexual relationship with a girl of legal age, I simply would not find that a girl of that age would have enough life experience to share with me. It would not be a balanced relationship, it would be her looking up to me (which is probably natural for a girl of that age to want someone older with a bit of confidence, to lead her)

However if there was a 16 year old girl at the place where I worked then I wouldn't have a problem getting to know her a bit socially and being friendly towards her - whereas I would consider that inappropriate with a younger girl. Just a relationship wouldn't really seem worthwhile.

Reply 19

sarax

MagicNMedicine

I'm a 26 year old male. I wouldn't be interested in a relationship with a 16 year old girl.

There's nothing illegal or immoral about a sexual relationship with a girl of legal age, I simply would not find that a girl of that age would have enough life experience to share with me. It would not be a balanced relationship, it would be her looking up to me (which is probably natural for a girl of that age to want someone older with a bit of confidence, to lead her)

However if there was a 16 year old girl at the place where I worked then I wouldn't have a problem getting to know her a bit socially and being friendly towards her - whereas I would consider that inappropriate with a younger girl. Just a relationship wouldn't really seem worthwhile.

thats kinda what I said, different life experiences, different emotional places... blah blah blah
it just doesn't seem feasible to me. from the girls p.o.v. i think she should spend some time getting to know people closer to her age, who see can share experiences with and have a good time with.. etc

sara

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Crisis! anyone ever been in the same suituation??

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