What do i do?

Ok i really need some advise, theres this guy, and i really really like him and he likes me too, however, hes seeing someone else but hes not really happy with her atm and my parents arent going to allow us to be together (for reasons i dont want to go into).

Anyway i hate lying and sneaking around but its the only way im gonna have a chance to be with him, im just worried he will get bored and fed up because we cant be together and decide to call everything off.

I told him this and he said dont be silly, and that it wouldnt happen, so i felt abit better.

I just cant stop thinking about him though and i think alot of him, do i carry on being sly behind my families back so that i can have what i want or not? :confused:

Reply 1

Redefined

Your not only being sly with regards to your family but also this guy's partner. Remember what he says to you about her may not be exactly true. Therefore, I would suggest leave it until he is totally single, your parents are another matter though :frown:

Reply 2

high priestess fnord

leave him alone. he belongs to someone else.

Reply 3

shyr_15

he already belongs to someone else and he's not totally loyal to her. if he's not happy with the other girl he must have broken up with her. but he didn't, he preferred having both of you. he is selfish...

Reply 4

username47781

I'd back off until he drops his girlfriend, if he really wants you he has to dump her first, otherwise seeing him now it will just not work even if he promises to dump his girlfriend, he may not. He obviously wants to have his cake and to eat it. try reading this thread it may help http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?p=4534745#post4534745

Reply 5

sweetface.

high priestess fnord

leave him alone. he belongs to someone else.

Exactly, leave the poor guy alone. Just becuase he's having troubles with his gf does not and should give you the chance to jump in there. I mean how about if you haad a bf but he was not happy with you at the moment, and he decides to cheat on you with this other girl how would you feel? My thoughts exactly.