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missing

does anyone else sometimes feel that their life is just empty? i know that if i did more uni work that i would get satisfaction out of it, but i never seem to have time for as im in another part of the country with my boyfriend. i love my boyfriend and every moment i spend with him is wonderful but when im alone i just feel like im stuck in limbo, everything is meaningless. i hate being one of those annoying girls who is totally emotionaly dependent oh her boyfriend. i hate the way i feel but i cant help it.

emo rant over

thanks

Reply 1

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does anyone else sometimes feel that their life is just empty? i know that if i did more uni work that i would get satisfaction out of it, but i never seem to have time for as im in another part of the country with my boyfriend. i love my boyfriend and every moment i spend with him is wonderful but when im alone i just feel like im stuck in limbo, everything is meaningless. i hate being one of those annoying girls who is totally emotionaly dependent oh her boyfriend. i hate the way i feel but i cant help it.

emo rant over

thanks


I think that what your main problem is that your boyfriend seems to be acting as your only friend and that he is having to fill all your emotional needs which is definitely too much for him to handle just by himself. You need to have a group of female friends so that the area that is missing can be filled. Try to get yourself more involved with female friendships, but don't overdo it. Get out more!

Reply 2

i have friends. im not that needy. i dont go out very much when im at uni though because i dont like the clubs here. dont get me wrong i do have a social life of my own (to the point where people have commented that i dont spend enough time with him at parties and stuff). its just when he isnt around at all i feel cut in half.

Reply 3

How long have you been going out with him? You can love him just as much, if not more, yet missing him gets easier to cope with as time goes on.

Reply 4

a year. we spend most of our free time together though so it feels longer.