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I've seen lots of threads in this forum asking about whether or not girls mind guys with a smaller penis, but are there any girls who actually prefer to be with a smaller guy (below average)?

Vote on the poll.


Quite certain it doesn't even matter tbh. As long as you use it in the right way. God, these polls/threads are pointless! :angry:
Anon because... I don't want people to know who I am :tongue:

I have not seen many penises, so what I say is average or not comes down more to guesswork:

1st boyfriend: average length (guess), thick girth = OW
2nd boyfriend: very long, thick girth (for sure) = OW
3rd boyfriend: average length (guess), medium/(or from my point of view, much much less thick girth) = :smile:

That said, I am quite small. So in my case yes, I prefer smaller penises than average, at least in terms of girth. Length I suspect that if it were any shorter then maybe the positions available would not be as many.
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Would be funny if preferring it was some kind of new hipster craze.

Negged by a hipster. Aren't you so cool :rolleyes:
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Surely its more about the man attached to the penis and not just the penis itself?
Original post by PostgradMatt
Surely its more about the man attached to the penis and not just the penis itself?


Exactly!
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Original post by PostgradMatt
Surely its more about the man attached to the penis and not just the penis itself?




God bless naive people and their dream worlds.


Size is relevant. The problem is that most people get all worried about their average sized dicks. Because, you know, most people are average in size and thus it makes so much sense to worry about being that. Whether this is due to porn or whatever is doesn't matter, it's ****ing stupid and guys need to stop being idiots. But few women are going to be overly joyed by very large or very small.
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Original post by PostgradMatt
Surely its more about the man attached to the penis and not just the penis itself?


This.
It's more about how you use it OP,along with hands,kissing..general overall technique that makes for enjoyable sex for the both of you. Some women yes may prefer smaller penises or bigger penises but what I said before still stands.
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Original post by concubine
God bless naive people and their dream worlds.


Size is relevant. The problem is that most people get all worried about their average sized dicks. Because, you know, most people are average in size and thus it makes so much sense to worry about being that. Whether this is due to porn or whatever is doesn't matter, it's ****ing stupid and guys need to stop being idiots. But few women are going to be overly joyed by very large or very small.


Yes men are idiots, because women never worry about pointless **** like being an average weight do they :rolleyes:
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And thank goodness for this 'anonymous' function, am I right pals?
I often think my gf would be happier if I were 'smaller'. I was her first so she doesn't really have a baseline for comparison, but I'm larger than average, especially in girth and we've been trying for about 5 months now and it's still painful for her.

I know it sounds like guys are trying to 'stealth brag' when they talk about this, but nobody wants to hurt someone they care about, and she feels bad about it because she can't enjoy it and therefore I stop. It's starting to put a bit of weight on the relationship because both parties feel bad about it.
Depends.

Smaller than what?

I don't mind a penis that is smaller than massive.
Original post by Anonymous
It's more about how you use it OP,along with hands,kissing..general overall technique that makes for enjoyable sex for the both of you. Some women yes may prefer smaller penises or bigger penises but what I said before still stands.

Just to let you know, that's a vague statement. I've asked girls, and maybe they don't know what they're talking about but there is no overall technique for penetration, it's not like using your mouth or hands. Seems to be there are only a few variables when it comes to penetration; depth, speed, rhythm. And stamina but some would argue that might not count.To me, those things are hardly technique. You merely assess the situation and adapt those variables and position to suit the occasion.
Original post by Dragonfly07
Depends.

Smaller than what?

I don't mind a penis that is smaller than massive.

A pencil...

I would assume OP means average which is 5.5" length, 5" girth, I believe.

Original post by concubine
God bless naive people and their dream worlds.


Size is relevant. The problem is that most people get all worried about their average sized dicks. Because, you know, most people are average in size and thus it makes so much sense to worry about being that. Whether this is due to porn or whatever is doesn't matter, it's ****ing stupid and guys need to stop being idiots. But few women are going to be overly joyed by very large or very small.

Pos repped because you didn't deserve the neg rep. You make a fair point. If you're average you've got nothing to complain about, chances are that a girl's previous sexual partners will have been around that size and therefore you're no different than to what she's used to [and have nothing to worry about]. It's the extremes that can have problems. There's the too small where the girl may not get the same sensation as she would from the average guy. Then there's the too large. From experience I can tell guys that it's painful for the woman. And while they enjoyed it they weren't so keen to repeat the experience so quickly(i.e.: wanted time to recover).
What does it really matter? If she's going to sleep with you, she's decided so before seeing the state of your wiener.
Original post by General_Tupov
Quite certain it doesn't even matter tbh. As long as you use it in the right way.


very true. if hit my g/f over the head with mine doesnt mean she will appreciate the fact its an 8 incher
Original post by Indo-Chinese Food
very true. if hit my g/f over the head with mine doesnt mean she will appreciate the fact its an 8 incher


I havent seen you for a while. How's your girlfriend Squishy123 doing? ;-) lmao God forbid !
Original post by Carrotcake18
I havent seen you for a while. How's your girlfriend Squishy123 doing? ;-) lmao God forbid !


she would benefit from a whack on the head, but preferably from someone smaller
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