sorry guys another..relationship thread

ok well ive been with my boyfriend on and off for roughly 3 years..we was together and he kissed a girl while he was with me so we break up as i dont tolerate any case of cheating..we then was split up for roufly 9 months.In that time i didnt get over him.We were then together for 2 years we argued alot like most couple then we split up due to a few reasons.Weve split for a month and now and i really miss him and love him lots and i think hes thinking of asking me back as he has said a few things recently.do i get back with him?I know this sounds really petty,but hes going away to thailand in a few months (but this time hes going for a month)and the last time he went away i couldnt cope i was worried so much about him and missed him far to much,as of all the thailand hoes etc,so im worried about that aswell,me not being able to cope as dumb as it may sound,aswell us just getting back and us not working again and constant arguing.I just dont want to keep getting back and splitting up its just stupid,Im just confused to what i want :confused:

sorry its so long and to bore you all too death

Reply 1

Anonymous #1

anyone?

Reply 2

Icebomb

distance makes the heart grow fonder,

it seems like you really feel strongly towards this guy, if you think its worth going through all those emotions (good and bad) again, then yes get together, it'll eat away at you if you don't.

Reply 3

dh00001

wait im confused. he kissed someone in front of you just so you'd break up with him? do you not wonder why he would do that?

Reply 4

Sam Beckett

Maybe you should get therapy. You seem quite insecure and distrusting, and seem to get jealous easily.

I'm no doctor but seems like its affecting you negatively, a lot. If its on your mind a lot and impacting on your life in a bad way, seek help.

Or maybe what you need is a nice guy, who won't cheat and holds you above all overs, and parades your for all to see. :P

I would say, once a cheater, always a cheater. And even if they aren't cheating, the relationship, for both people is forever changed, so its better to move onto a new relationship, that can be improved up on and is nearly always better than the one that came before it.

Good luck in whatever you decide. One more thing, not all Thai women are hoes. They do what they have to do to survive, I'm sure if you were in their position you'd turn to prostitution in order to eat and have shelter.

Just having a Sam Beckett moment..good luck though.

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

yeah thats true,do you think im being stupid about him going to thailand?I dont know what it is,I dont think it would be bother me the same if it was anywhere else,dont know what it is,he seems to be obsessed with the place and him and his mates get 'depressed' when they come back and go again and again.I know they dont just go for sex either as i talm to his friends and non of them have ever done that whilst being there.

Reply 6

Anonymous #1

no he kissed someonne(not in front of me)this was 2 years ago,then we broke up after i found out for 9 months then got back together.

Reply 7

dh00001

oh i see im sorry. but it does sound like a mess and likes hes messing you around. if you dont want to keep breaking up and getting back together, stick to one if you break up, stay like it. sorry, its not what you want to hear but you'll jus get more and more upset

Reply 8

Sam Beckett

You should leave him. Or get therapy if you want to stay with him.

Reply 9

Anonymous #1

what makes you all think i need help because of the holiday thing?thats the thing im never jelous he has lots of girl mates and see's them often and that doesnt bother me or when hes out round town.

Reply 10

crazy4dancin

I don't think that you need help because it's natural to think that if he cheated before then he will do again. From what you've said, I don't think you should get back with him. It seems like your relationship has died and getting back together will make another inevitable future break-up even harder to deal with. I split up with my Boyfriend 5 weeks ago and it's horrible but you have to move on and find someone else or just spend some time being single, you may eventually even enjoy it :-)xx

Reply 11

In Love

dont get back with him. maybe that's gonna hurt, you'll keep thinking of him and so on but this feeling will eventually go
and at the end it will hurt less than if u go back to him again and keep on arguing etc :frown:

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