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    (Original post by Okie dokie)
    There's nothing peculiar about sharing a bed with a female friend, I have done this several times. OP, i suggest you meet up with him again, he seems like a nice lad. All the best
    No of course there isn't I have done it plenty of times with guys that are just friends...
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    Um you need to get a grip? I never EVER once said he must stop nor do I want him to! If you must know my main concern is stepping on her toes and upsetting her OR making a fool out of myself! I'm not jealous of their relationship, I only met the guy once like you said so it's not like I'm emotionally invested in him, he just seemed like a really nice guy and we got on really well when talking... plus he SEEMED interested (I can usually tell)... but seeing as he has such a close relationship with a female it makes me doubt myself. I would never ask him to stop how he acts with his best friend! I am also not obsessing! I am just wondering whether it is worth flirting a bit more next time to see how it goes, or whether I would just be making myself look stupid.
    I had simply responded to a suggestion someone else had contributed. If you scroll up and have a look, you'll see what I was responding to. I was saying that what he had suggested was a little ridiculous. I don't see how you could construe that as me attacking you. I did not imply that you had done such a thing as confront this guy. Perhaps you should read a little more carefully.

    And my second point was that it is just not worth speculating so much over a guy you have met once. You will meet many many guys, many of whom will flirt with you a little or give you the eye. As a single person you will have options and shouldn't pin your hopes on one until there has been some significant development.
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    (Original post by Climbontoyourseahorse)
    I had simply responded to a suggestion someone else had contributed. If you scroll up and have a look, you'll see what I was responding to. I was saying that what he had suggested was a little ridiculous. I don't see how you could construe that as me attacking you. I did not imply that you had done such a thing as confront this guy. Perhaps you should read a little more carefully.

    And my second point was that it is just not worth speculating so much over a guy you have met once. You will meet many many guys, many of whom will flirt with you a little or give you the eye. As a single person you will have options and shouldn't pin your hopes on one until there has been some significant development.
    Oh ok sorry I apologise I thought you misread my OP and were trying to make me out to be some kind of psycho... really sorry! I feel bad now

    Yes the problem is I like flirting and usually don't care but with this guy there is question about it plus don't want to look desparate in front of new friends/make enemies... and weirdly I don't usually care about the guys I flirt with too much but there is something different about this one... maybe I should just stay clear until I am sure.
 
 
 
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