Confidence

Lately I have been feeling really depressed and I am not sure why, but it is making me feel really anxious all the time. There are many things that are going on in my life at the moment that may be causing it. Firstly, my final exams are approaching but nobody else seems to be affected by the pressure. Another thing is that I feel I dont really fit in with my classmates, who annoy the hell out of me, because I was seperated from my friends at the start of the year. Finally, ive been having a very rocky relationship with my girlfriend over the last few months, and she has been depressed for a long time too.

Overall, i am a very talented and nice person. I get good grades without much effort, a very good soccer and guitar player. However, i feel as if i lack confidence or social skills these days I am struggling to find a way to help redeem myself. I can never just relax and have fun, and it makes me unhappy. Any advice would be helpful. :frown:

Reply 1

Cloud_Strife

Confidence is a preference for the habitual voyeur of what is known as... (parklife!)

Reply 2

Icebomb

Do you go out often, usually when i think i lack confidence its because i havent been out having fun, trust me go out more and your confidence will grow, your relationship will grow too, since she must be feeling somthing is going downhill.

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

It is true, i dont go out a lot. Mostly its because most people i hang out with arent that outgoing and are always busy with work and stuff. I also live in a country where i dont speak the language at all, so its very hard to meet new people...