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    Due to it being the Christmas holidays, I haven't seen my boyfriend in a good few weeks because I've been studying and he flew back home for a few days. But we always planned that he would spend NYE and NYD with me and my family. I kind of had the whole day planned out and my mum was planning to make a big dinner for him, etc. But now he's saying that he can only stay over NYE and then will have to get a really early train back on NYD because he wants to buy a bike (of all the things!). I kind of don't know what to make of it :/
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    Due to it being the Christmas holidays, I haven't seen my boyfriend in a good few weeks because I've been studying and he flew back home for a few days. But we always planned that he would spend NYE and NYD with me and my family. I kind of had the whole day planned out and my mum was planning to make a big dinner for him, etc. But now he's saying that he can only stay over NYE and then will have to get a really early train back on NYD because he wants to buy a bike (of all the things!). I kind of don't know what to make of it :/
    If he's willing to come down to you, and spend New Years Eve with you, and leave in the morning, I think he might genuinely be busy (I'm not sure: maybe it's a really special bike...)
    But I thought that some shops aren't even going to be open on New Years Day?

    I think you shouldn't put too much pressure onto this to make you think that he doesn't want you.
    He obviously does want you, but maybe he's feeling busy?

    Hope it gets better after the New Year
 
 
 
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