Well yeah obviously that's a risk but (a) it would be quite irrational for a guy to think that because if you went off someone after the first date why would you then go on a second one? (b) it would also be an unusual conclusion to reach on the grounds that it isn't exactly typical to have sex with someone you're interested in having a relationship with every time you meet them, from the first date onwards. And (c) what I suggested was, in my view, the way to make the best out of a bad situation and to go some way towards easing the OP's worries. By contrast, saying "Would have been better to save it 'till later" when she clearly already knows that, is not helpful in the slightest.(Original post by OMGWTFBBQ)
The problem is that if you have one date with sex, and another without, the guy is going to think that you've gone off him or you have some other reason for not putting out -especially as you've spoken about how liberal minded you are.
Would have been better to save it 'till later.
When can you expect yours?