There was this guy I met about 5 years ago when I was 16 and at sixth form. He was older than me and left for uni before me.
We didn't really know eachother to talk to but I had him added on bebo (social networking 4 years ago) and we use to talk a bit on there.
3 months ago I saw him for the first time in 4 years on a night out. He reckonised me and even remembered my name. He invited back to his friends for a after party, nothing happened but he tried and I'm certain he would have, I had to keep on reminding him he had a gf. He'd been with her for 3 + years and they were at a on/off stage.
About 2 months ago they mutually decided to break up, the romance etc had fizzled between them and they are now friends.
Beween seeing him on the night out 3 months ago and now he's wanted to go out and been in touch quite a lot. It's taken me a year to get over my ex and I've only just got over him and started being interested in dating others.
He asked me if I wanted to do something the other night and I decided to go for it...i sugggested we went for drinks and a walk and that's what we did. I could tell he was nervous, but he was also really nice and a lot better looking than I remembered. I could tell he liked me a lot, we talked about our messages we use to send when we were younger and jokingky proclaimed that he use to stalk my bebo. He was too nervous to show any affection, e.g hold my hand or give me a kiss. I ended up making the move and going in for the kiss when we said our goodbyes. He suggested that NEXT TIME we do something more fun, I agreed.
He's 23 and doing his Masters, I'm 21.
Since the date on Suday we've been texting quite a lot and had a few phone conversations.
---last night during our text conversation I asked what his new years resolutions were. He said they were all boring/awks like alcohol and studies... I asked what was the one which was awkward, it took me a while to get it out of him but he said the awkward new years resolution was about me but wouldn't tell me what. I jokingly said 'haha what is it?! To sh*g me' he said 'no not at all, I'm not like that...'
what on earth could it be???
I already told him mine on our 'date' try harder at uni, be nicer to my family and end contact with ex and that the third one was awkward...I didn't tell him what the awkward one was but it was actually to get a boyfriend during 2013, he presumed it was about 'one of my other boy's' which there isn't.
I have a feeling hes eventually wanting a relationship, although I like him I don't really see that spark there but he is a really nice guy.