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    This is long and complicated, so I do appreciate those who read it. I don't often come on here but need some advice. I liked this girl when we were both in first year last year and I made the stupid decision to live with here and two others (guy & girl) I had told her how I felt last year and she wanted to remain friends. However over the summer I concentrated on her flaws and started to move on until, freshers this year she tells me she developed feelings for me. After that we kinda leave it like that and then she says she wants to stay friends. Weeks later on a night out we were both drunk and get with each other, she apologises next morning by making me breakfast. Finaly one night we ended up getting with each other and she mentioned fwb. We both forget this and nothing else has happened since. The problem is a) i live with her and b) she is one of my best friends. Friendzone i know but i can't move on because how can i move on? When she lives with me. I work 3 jobs and am on a uni team so am busy but she's always on my mind. Just before we left uni for Christmas she wrote me a card saying how im her best friend and how she's so lucky. When i read this i just thought im in permanent friendzone here and i get jealous when she gets with people, i know its bad. However my worst fear is when she will bring guys home, I know its inevitable and she's perfectly entitled to but I don't know how id react. This whole situation is complex and I don't know how to progress...
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