My boyfriend is very social and has lots of friends, but I'm antisocial and quiet. I can't seem to click with his friends so it tends to get Awkward. He'd rather hang out with his buddies without me and I understand because if I was there I would be quiet anyways. He doesn't want me to get bored, and since I'm quiet he has to hang out with me the whole time cause I'm not a social butterfly. For some reason he says it works between us because we balance eachother out, I bring him down a little and he can get me out of my shell. I don't know but I feel hurt sometimes cause were so different. Last night he worked all night for New Year's Eve at a restaurant so we couldn't spend it together. He was telling me he wishes I were there with him but today he decided to hang out with his friends and made no plans to hang out with me... Just told me he would call me after. He doesn't really bring me along with his friends because I'm not social and he said ill just sit there and be quiet. I understand but it kind of hurts being with someone so different from me, hes 24 and in 20. What do y'all think?
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- Thread Starter
- 02-01-2013 00:47
- 02-01-2013 03:42
Surely, you will have to eventually socialise with his friends if you were two were to get serious, or more serious..
Why cant you just hang out him and his friends? Im also a quiet person who likes to keep to myself. But I hang out with my boyfriend and his friends, probably more than I do with my own female friends because its nice to know the people that my boyfriend gets along with,..plus they are pretty cool guys!