long story short.. been in a rlship for about nearly a yr now with a guy at same uni. used to a date a guy on/off ish for just over 3 weeks before my bf..since things became serious, (lets just call him the ex) ex- same uni as all of us became immensly jealous to the point of wanting to cause trouble and physical fights with my bf. apart from outside drama we have had a lot of ups and downs, but overall it is good.
i've had to put up with the girl he used to date before me *****ing about me opposite the table on his bday, the girl before this one claiming my bf cheated on her with me and her giving me dirty looks. biggest slut in our uni trying to hang out with him and then for her to spread rumours about me..and his exfriends spreading rumours and trying to make my uni life hell. his ex guy mate literally punching the air behind my back and saying ****. i haven't had this much stress and all because a guy is jealous that I have moved on and my bf mates- some dont like me. my friends have told me its probably because im one of the attractive girls in uni and people want to cause drama because their lives are boring. im not stuck up at all, i pretty much talk to everyone as im a people person and dont start drama myself so i dont understand why people take the time to do it.
my bf once told me he wished he never met me because so much drama has circulated and brought stress on both of us. i know this is going to sound really stupid but i was truly hurt when he said that. i never expected this to happen AT ALL. if i did, i wouldnt have met the ex guy and progressed what happened and never knew he would become super jealous of my rlship. got to the point where i self harmed myself on my wrist few times, there was a time where i had news my mum nearly had a stroke as she has high blood pressure and rumours were spread about me, and literally no one to talk to about it.
this is a new year, and i really cant stand another yr of this.
I don't know what to do? im so close to actually telling the uni about it all, but i dont want to put myself in danger to where these guys would try to turn to me and beat me up if they got kicked out or dealt with..
Relationship Disaster?! Watch
- Thread Starter
- 02-01-2013 17:02
- 02-01-2013 18:04
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